Do you think dad can do as good of a job as mom?

Why is it that moms think dads can't handle the household/kids like they can? Do you leave instructions for dad when you leave the house?

this dad cant.... 


but i do know there are amazing dads and crappy moms out there so idk.

My husband does a great job actually.

YESSSSSSSSSSS I do.

It depends on the person, kind of like their our dads out there that are FAR better parents than the moms.

Because a lot of dads cant. They tend not to be as good at multitasking.

Not all of them though. I know a few males who are just as good, if not better than the moms. Just depends on the person.

SO was a SAHD for awhile there... he did wonderful.

Sometimes ....
In my case no!!
NO CHIPS RYAN GOD DIT~

When it comes to our son...yes, daddy rocks it, all the way.


the house.. oh my God I fear what would happen if I was sick and hospitalized for a week or went away for any length of time!!

Oh God....I dont even want to think about it

My so does a good job but i still don't like to leave him at home with 3 toddlers but only cause it looks like a bomb went off when i get home. And way more messy than if i was there lol

Quoting Shannonsfirst:" When it comes to our son...yes, daddy rocks it, all the way. the house.. oh my God I fear what would ... [snip!] ... if I was sick and hospitalized for a week or went away for any length of time!! Oh God....I dont even want to think about it"

SO cleans when he is mad.... when the house is a wreck I'll piss him off       

I'm lucky! *sigh*

Yup. My husband is wonderful and does a perfect job with the house and kids.

My SO was good except he forgets to check her nappy, so if I leave LO with him, when I get back she has an overfull nappy everytime.

Quoting Rumpelstiltskin:" SO cleans when he is mad.... when the house is a wreck I'll piss him off        I'm lucky! *sigh* "

I have never met him or seen him ....but I seriously just got a little wet reading that about your SO

If I ever did that, my husband would be so mad and insulted, he'd prob. decide to do the opposite. I ask how the day went, if I ever find out something he does different than me that bothers me, we talk. But, really, coming home and she is fed, alive, and has clothes on is the important things. I know I am lucky cuz I have a lot of single-mom friends, so I try to stay chill.

My daughter listens to him way more than me...but I bet that would change if he's the one she saw every day and not me