Quoting Commander Shepard:" Just share your knowledge with her in a non threatening way and like you just learned the safety information ... [snip!] ... found out that carseats have expiration dates! I also learned how much safer it is to ERF. Did you know about any of this?""
Quoting FaithLovesBaby:" I would let her know that she could get a ticket. I tried explaining that to my mother's son(her kid is 18-19 pounds and 11 months) and she's had him front facing a while now."
Quoting ILOVEWINE:" I would say nothing. If she is not looking for advice then don't give it. You don't actually know the seat is expired."
Quoting ILOVEWINE:" <blockquote><b>Quoting TiddlyWinks ♥:</b>" You're right that she didn't ask ... [snip!] ... and rips in it."</blockquote> I understand wanting to help her out, but it will more than likely backfire on you."
Quoting ILOVEWINE:" <blockquote><b>Quoting TiddlyWinks ♥:</b>" It probably would. I just wish that ... [snip!] ... about making important choices for their kids. And I'll never understand why people are in such a rush to turn babies around."