Quoting Rumpelstiltskin:" My ex made me pay him to watch Spawn if I wanted to go out a night. You're friend isn't getting paid or anything, he just calls it babysitting instead of parenting. No harm no foul. "
Quoting Back to Noob Status:" Your ex sounds like an asswipe. "
Quoting Kelly&Coralie:" BD and I aren't together, and he'll come over and "baby sit" when I want a night out he doesn't call ... [snip!] ... ask him for a few hours, it's baby sitting. If we were together, it wouldn't be babysitting I hope I explained taht right"