Quoting Joanne Bailey-Deere:" Newborn babies cluster feed too it is normal, although exhausting it does get better my baby is 3 weeks ... [snip!] ... her mouth and my breast) then wind her and give her the dummy, she usually falls straight off to sleep. Hope this helps =)"
during the day now when i think hes using me to soothe himself. i pop his paci in his mouth and lay him on my chest. at night if hes just soothing i lay a blanket on his boppy, lay him on it, wrap him up in the blanket, strap him in the boppy, and give him his paci. (he wont sleep in anything but his boppy or longer then 5 minutes. if it didnt have straps like hell id let him sleep in it. it makes co sleeping feel a whole lot safer for me. i put two pillows under his boppy so there is no way for either me or DH to roll over on him and the straps keep him from sliding down and suffocating.)