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Kissing

posted 7th Oct
On which date would you kiss? even if the first date went really good, would you still stick by your rule?

I went out on a date on Friday. He asked when he was going to see me again, and only if I could give him a kiss. I said I generally don't until a few dates in, so it got me to thinking what everyone else does.
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I have 1 child & 1 angel baby & live in New York
posted 7th Oct
I don't have a rule. I do it when it feels right.

Same with sex
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I have 2 kids & live in Raleigh, North Carolina
posted 7th Oct
Quoting Danielle: Jack&Basil'sMom:" I don't have a rule. I do it when it feels right. Same with sex"

same here.
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I have 2 kids & live in Pennsylvania
posted 7th Oct
Quoting Danielle: Jack&Basil'sMom:" I don't have a rule. I do it when it feels right. Same with sex"
 
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I'm due December 13th, have 1 child & 1 angel baby & live in Ohio
posted 7th Oct
I always stick by my rule for kissing and for sex regardless of how good the first date went.
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I have 3 kids & 1 angel baby & live in Costa Mesa, California
posted 7th Oct
Quoting Danielle: Jack&Basil'sMom:" I don't have a rule. I do it when it feels right. Same with sex"


I didn't really think I had a rule either, but when he asked me that it kind of caught me off guard and I just told him that I have a rule of waiting a few dates in. Idk, guess it means deep down inside I'm really not all that interested.
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I have 1 child & 1 angel baby & live in New York
posted 7th Oct
<blockquote><b>Quoting Tikaytasha:</b>" I didn't really think I had a rule either, but when he asked me that it kind of caught me off guard ... [snip!] ... told him that I have a rule of waiting a few dates in. Idk, guess it means deep down inside I'm really not all that interested."</blockquote>




I would have just told him I wasn't comfortable enough yet
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I have 2 kids & live in Raleigh, North Carolina
posted 7th Oct
Quoting Tikaytasha:" On which date would you kiss? even if the first date went really good, would you still stick by your ... [snip!] ... if I could give him a kiss. I said I generally don't until a few dates in, so it got me to thinking what everyone else does."


confused... he would only see you again if you kissed him? or asked you for a kiss, and only a kiss?

I don't have a rule... but I only will kiss if it feels right, if I'm into him, and it feels appropriate.





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I have 4 kids & live in Georgia
posted 7th Oct
Quoting Tikaytasha:" I didn't really think I had a rule either, but when he asked me that it kind of caught me off guard ... [snip!] ... told him that I have a rule of waiting a few dates in. Idk, guess it means deep down inside I'm really not all that interested."


not necessarily... though honestly.... when I'm REALLY into someone.... thinking about them kissing me is usually distracting and on my mind.

Often I guage how a first date went by thinking.. "{do I WANT him to kiss me?"

if not.. unlikely I'll see them again.

but.. sometimes I DO wnat htem too.. just not that night.
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I have 4 kids & live in Georgia
posted 7th Oct
Quoting snglemama:" confused... he would only see you again if you kissed him? or asked you for a kiss, and only a kiss? ... [snip!] ... only a kiss? I don't have a rule... but I only will kiss if it feels right, if I'm into him, and it feels appropriate. "

He was like "when am I going to see you again", so I told him this weekend I had my daughter but maybe I could get my sister to watch her for a few hours so he said "well only if i get a kiss this time". Which really caught me off guard. He told me after our first date he thought I wasn't interested because I wouldn't kiss him.
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I have 1 child & 1 angel baby & live in New York
posted 7th Oct
I've never been on a real date   but I don't have a rule and agree that it would happen when it felt right. If it feels right after the first date then it'll happen. But like...I don't go out with just random guys or anything [well, didn't] so it's like I would have already known and established feelings for the guy so I would be more likely to kiss sooner.
Does that make sense? I rambled.
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I have 10 kids & live in Georgia
posted 7th Oct
Quoting snglemama:" not necessarily... though honestly.... when I'm REALLY into someone.... thinking about them kissing ... [snip!] ... "{do I WANT him to kiss me?" if not.. unlikely I'll see them again. but.. sometimes I DO wnat htem too.. just not that night."



I didn't think about kissing him..at all.
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I have 1 child & 1 angel baby & live in New York
posted 7th Oct
Quoting Up In Smoke Signals:" I've never been on a real date   but I don't have a rule and agree that it would happen when it ... [snip!] ... already known and established feelings for the guy so I would be more likely to kiss sooner. Does that make sense? I rambled."

Totally know what you mean. And don't feel bad, this is like the second real date I've ever been on, I'm 25 lol.
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I have 1 child & 1 angel baby & live in New York
posted 7th Oct
Quoting Tikaytasha:" He was like "when am I going to see you again", so I told him this weekend I had my daughter but maybe ... [snip!] ... Which really caught me off guard. He told me after our first date he thought I wasn't interested because I wouldn't kiss him. "


don't worry about it. if HE is really interested... he'd keep trying.

I dated a guy, who shook my hand first date lol. I thought he wasn't interested, not even a hug. but... I liked him. we went out again.

he thought 3rd date I wans't interested... apparently ther'es a 3 date sex rule... but even though I wasn't even close to ready to put out then... he kept trying. We dated 8 months, fell in love.





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I have 4 kids & live in Georgia
posted 7th Oct
Quoting Tikaytasha:" I didn't think about kissing him..at all. "


eh... I'd find someone else then.
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I have 4 kids & live in Georgia
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