re: Kissing

Quoting snglemama:" don't worry about it. if HE is really interested... he'd keep trying. I dated a guy, who shook my ... [snip!] ... but even though I wasn't even close to ready to put out then... he kept trying. We dated 8 months, fell in love. "

Thats exactly what I did, I shook his hand   lol

Quoting Tikaytasha:" Thats exactly what I did, I shook his hand   lol"

yea.. but you weren't thinking of kissing him../ that's my point lol.

Quoting snglemama:" yea.. but you weren't thinking of kissing him../ that's my point lol. "

Yeah, I mean he was nice but I just don't think he's for me.

DH and I hugged good bye on our first date, it was very friendly and comfortable... And we kissed on our 2nd date... But that led to us naked in bed fooling around (no sex tho, lol). Once we started we couldn't stop, lmfao.


All I could think about on the first date when we were sitting next to each other, is how I'd melt into a pile of mush if he kissed me. God I had a crush on him, lol.

I haVe no rule - if it feels right I go for it.

The only rule I have is not on the first date. After that I go by how I feel. I kissed SO on the cheek as he left after our 3rd date. He was so sweet opening my doors, paying for everything, and my cat liked him. I told him if the cat didn't like him I wasn't sure it would work, lol.

A kiss on the cheek on the first date is acceptable to me. Though, I was always a tease when it came to first seeing people, it always kept them coming back and wanting that kiss (or more) even more.

I dont kiss on the first date not even sex. Not even second or third lol.............