Thank you all for sharing your experience with me I think abortion vis our best option, but after my ob apointment today and ultrasound I don't know if I'm stong enough to go through with one.

it was painful emotionally and physically AND i regret it

Quoting sua madre bella:" Thank you all for sharing your experience with me I think abortion vis our best option, but after my ob apointment today and ultrasound I don't know if I'm stong enough to go through with one."

i don't think i would have been able to go through with it if i had seen an ultrasound beforehand.... that has to be rough. i'm not saying you should change your mind, i'm just saying for me it would be hard, and i purposely didn't get one, or look when she was doing it before the procedure. she didn't offer for me to look either, so that helped. i was about 7 weeks and it was a surgical. pm me if you want or need to talk.

<blockquote><b>Quoting MommaNoodle:</b>" i don't think i would have been able to go through with it if i had seen an ultrasound beforehand.... ... [snip!] ... offer for me to look either, so that helped. i was about 7 weeks and it was a surgical. pm me if you want or need to talk."</blockquote>




I told her if anything was visable I didn't want to see, but since its so early it wasn't even a sac it was a smudge on the screen

It was painful and still is emotionally and mentally.
Biggest regret ever.

Physically, I had very little pain. But emotionally, it was very damaging. I deeply regretted it immediately after. Second guesses coupled with insane hormones are a bad combination.

But 5 years later, I don't regret it at all. I did what I felt was best for not only me, but my potential child. I would not take it back.

I thought it was the worst pain of my life, worse than labor. Even after..for a week i had cramps that felt like contractions.. but we are all different... i felt great for 2 weeks about my decision, now i regret it every now and then. :/

<blockquote><b>Quoting ☀chelx0 ☮ TJB:</b>" I thought it was the worst pain of my life, worse than labor. Even after..for a week i had cramps that ... [snip!] ... contractions.. but we are all different... i felt great for 2 weeks about my decision, now i regret it every now and then. :/"</blockquote>


I'm sorry that you regret it. Thank you for sharing. Good luck to you  

I had an abortion 6 years ago its my biggest regret and the thing I regret the least. I was a UNi student, in an relationship, had been on the pill but traveling and moving across the world. The relationship only last another veryvabusive year which is why I don't regret it, I wouldn't want my child to be apart of his fathers life. I think of my child sometimes what would he look like what would I be like as a mother, I think he would be proud of what I've made of my life. I regret most not confiding in my family, only a few friends knew who I'm not in contact with now. It's a choice that you have to be prepared for, it's easy to do hard to live with forever. Good luck with your choice

No pain,a lil emotional. no regrets. I'm over it .it was 2yrs ago i had a 2month old to look after. but she 33months now and I'm expecting again with my abortion due date Nov 25th

<blockquote><b>Quoting Sanaa&Idris Mommy:</b>" No pain,a lil emotional. no regrets. I'm over it .it was 2yrs ago i had a 2month old to look after. but she 33months now and I'm expecting again with my abortion due date Nov 25th"</blockquote>



Congratulations

<blockquote><b>Quoting P.S I'm pregnant ♥:</b>" <blockquote><b>Quoting Sanaa&Idris Mommy:</b>" No pain,a lil emotional. no regrets. ... [snip!] ... after. but she 33months now and I'm expecting again with my abortion due date Nov 25th"</blockquote> Congratulations"</blockquote>




Thanks Congratz to u too