Quoting Ole' No Name:" I have a friend who can queef on demand 0_o she tried to teach me how, lol. She also pushed out a 9lb baby and didn't tear at all, maybe she's just loose. "
Hey now! I pushed out a 9lb baby and only needed 3 stitches.
OP, I have no idea. I've had a lot of sex, pushed out a 9lb child, yet putting in a "regular" tampon still hurts. I've been having sex with my husband who in 8" long and 6.5" in girth and I still tell him to go in easy, lol.
I don't feel loose considering the last two. I've asked my husband and he says I'm tighter since LO, but I'm sure he wouldn't tell me that I'm loose, lol.
All I know if my vagina does the job.