re: why aren't many people keen on giving babies up for adoption

Quoting Up In Smoke Signals:" Shoulda known! I guess I'm racking up thousands in student loans for a degree for nothing! *facepalm* Thank goodness she was here to mend my ways!"

Gosh, how DARE you try to get an education!

Quoting Sophia's Mommy♥:" Gosh, how DARE you try to get an education!"

Right? I should let SO know that I'm dropping out of school so that when he accidentally knocks me up, I can make sure I have time to man up and face the consequences of opening my legs. Food stamps and WIC are super easy to get in my county so we'll be all set!

Quoting Up In Smoke Signals:" Right? I should let SO know that I'm dropping out of school so that when he accidentally knocks me up, ... [snip!] ... up and face the consequences of opening my legs. Food stamps and WIC are super easy to get in my county so we'll be all set!"

That sounds like a great idea!

<blockquote><b>Quoting Up In Smoke Signals:</b>" Right? I should let SO know that I'm dropping out of school so that when he accidentally knocks me up, ... [snip!] ... up and face the consequences of opening my legs. Food stamps and WIC are super easy to get in my county so we'll be all set!"</blockquote>




Thanks Obama!

Wow... I go to school full time and work full time and still have time with my kids... There isnt anything that they want or need. And i am not on wellfare, food stamps or any other kind of government assistance so try again. It can be done...

Quoting **Hanna**:" Just curious... Why does everyone seem to choose abortion over adoption"

I think it would be a lot harder to carry a baby 9 months to see them and then give them up...it's a normal emotional attachment that all women have. Out of sight, out of mind...easier in the long run.

<blockquote><b>Quoting Angel Wilder:</b>" Wow... I go to school full time and work full time and still have time with my kids... There isnt anything ... [snip!] ... want or need. And i am not on wellfare, food stamps or any other kind of government assistance so try again. It can be done..."</blockquote>


 

Well I do get wic. I guess I'm a failure.

Quoting Angel Wilder:" Wow... I go to school full time and work full time and still have time with my kids... There isnt anything ... [snip!] ... want or need. And i am not on wellfare, food stamps or any other kind of government assistance so try again. It can be done..."

Well I guess everybody should be like you, right?

Quoting Angel Wilder:" Wow... I go to school full time and work full time and still have time with my kids... There isnt anything ... [snip!] ... want or need. And i am not on wellfare, food stamps or any other kind of government assistance so try again. It can be done..."

For many people it's totally doable...but for just as many it's not.

Quoting Angel Wilder:" Wow... I go to school full time and work full time and still have time with my kids... There isnt anything ... [snip!] ... want or need. And i am not on wellfare, food stamps or any other kind of government assistance so try again. It can be done..."

Good for you. I don't want to do it and I don't have to do it so I'm not going to do it.

Quoting Angel Wilder:" Wow... I go to school full time and work full time and still have time with my kids... There isnt anything ... [snip!] ... want or need. And i am not on wellfare, food stamps or any other kind of government assistance so try again. It can be done..."

If you work full time and go to school full time then you are not spending as much time with your kids as you could if you were not doing both. It's impossible. Having another child would further split that time they DO get. And you want a pat on the back for that? I'm not on any of those things either, doesn't make me a better person.

YOU are not everyone. You cannot apply the things that have happened in YOUR life to everyone elses life.

I never said that everyone needs to be like me and yes i have plenty of time for my kids and do both.. No pat on the back needed i was saying you cant use that as a cop out. But whatever done on this forum its not worth my time. Because there are too many close minded people on here. I never said getting wic if you needed it was a bad thing i was making a point.

Quoting she nan igans:" If you work full time and go to school full time then you are not spending as much time with your kids ... [snip!] ... me a better person. YOU are not everyone. You cannot apply the things that have happened in YOUR life to everyone elses life."

     
I barely have time to breathe as it is. I'm only on here now because I haven't gone to bed yet and am about to go look at a house. I can't imagine adding a child or two or three to the mix. When I'm not at work or at school or doing schoolwork or trying to catch up on sleep I just want to be alone and mellow for a while. I'd go crazy.

Quoting Angel Wilder:" I never said that everyone needs to be like me and yes i have plenty of time for my kids and do both.. ... [snip!] ... there are too many close minded people on here. I never said getting wic if you needed it was a bad thing i was making a point."

Lol the only close-minded person here is you..

Quoting Angel Wilder:" I never said that everyone needs to be like me and yes i have plenty of time for my kids and do both.. ... [snip!] ... there are too many close minded people on here. I never said getting wic if you needed it was a bad thing i was making a point."

  at too many closed minded people in here. I've only seen one. Get out of here.