Quoting lolajessup:" <blockquote><b>Quoting she nan igans:</b>" You wish it was easier? So we had even ... [snip!] ... will happen to the child. They might go back home they might not. Some people jut want a baby. They don't want a foster child."
Wow. I'm sorry, but your entire post sort of makes me sick. I hope you're saying thats what people FEAR, not the reality. Because, really? Sexually abused kids ruin smurf and try to kill people? Please lord tell me you're explaining the flawed reason, not the truth.
However, that's the POINT. If people want kids bad enough why not adopt the ones available instead of using my uterus as a rent-a-space for kids that are exactly what they want. There are PLENTY of kids out there if people want to adopt. The reason they aren't adopted is because there are babies available. Everytime a baby is placed, there goes the chance at a home for a kid already is foster care. So by having babies and putting them up for adopted, you're taking homes out of the already small group of people who MIGHT adopt an older child.