I don't mean "well it wasn't planned but we are excited nonetheless!" I mean unwanted, don't have the money or desire at all for another child. WWYD? *and I'm not asking for opinions on abortion, so if you want to incorrectly quote Dr. Seuss and tell me a person is a person no matter how small, don't waste your time. I appreciate any and all beliefs and opinions but this isn't what I'm asking for.

I would have it.

That's how it was with rylan, and here I am 3 yrs later and we're perfectly happy, I'm sure if it happened again I would figure smurf out once more

I am not sure.. I'd either have an abortion or figure smurf out.

I keep replying to your threads.
I would abort. I've thought about it extensively, especially since I placed almost 3 years ago, and right now both SO and I are in school and working full time and he's training for a fight. We're not not getting along [yes I meant to put not twice] but I'm not happy and that would smurf our relationship over like it did the first time I got pregnant. Plus we live with a roommate and couldn't afford to be on our own. It would suck and I'd be sad but logically that's the only option that makes sense right now. I can't do adoption again and I don't want to be pregnant at all anyway. I was a horrible pregnant person the first time because I didn't want to be pregnant.

First and foremost, I would talk to my husband about it so I can see how he feels. Although its my decision, his feelings matter to me so I would take them into consideration. I would want to abort though.

I believe things happen for a reason but I know not everyone shares the same religious beliefs as me.

I'd keep the pregnancy whether I tried to prevent an "unwanted pregnancy" or not.
Also I've been through A LOT so purposefully ending my pregnancy is somethin I know I could not do given any circumstances.

Honestly I would abort. We just had Zora less than a year ago, SO and I are in no position financially to support another child, and I can't emotionally handle the stress of having two children, a job, and going to school full time. If I were out of school then we'd probably try to figure smurf out but right now that's just not possible for us.

When i found out about DD she was kinda that baby but she is here and 4 months old and we will survive.

I'd abort. Not even a second thought

I'd have a baby. I'm the type of person to deal with my actions. I made it so I'd raise it. Somehow I'd figure it all out.

if SO and I absolutely didn't want another child i would abort.
irl though we wouldn't midn another child, so we'd figure smurf out.

Abort.
I have 2mo infant twins and a 2yo. I even have my tubes tied, so I obviously don't want anymore children.
It would be difficult emotionally, I'm sure, but it would be for the best.

If that were to happen to me I would probably chose abortion. I don't think I would chose adoption because there are so many children out there that need parents and I'd prefer they get their chance before an unborn fetus

Quoting 1+1=4..maybe more..:" I'd have a baby. I'm the type of person to deal with my actions. I made it so I'd raise it. Somehow I'd figure it all out."

Pretty sure abortion and adoption are also considered dealing with one's actions.