Keep the baby. I was in the same situation as the one you mentioned with my son---pulled my smurf together and did what I had to lol.

I'd do whatever I had to do and have the baby. It may be a strain and stressful in the beginning but I believe things will all come together in the end. I know right now if I were to have another I know I'm not mentally or emotionally ready seeing as my daughter just turned one, but I would make it work.

Before I had my dd one day with a baby was exhausting, and now it's become a way of life.

Oh I would abort, no question. We are not in any kind of financial situation to be bringing another child into the world, I'd be down that Doctor's Office to get referred to the hospital for an abortion quicker than the blink of an eye.

This is our third and it was a surprise but we are thrilled. We do NOT want more than three so whatever ends up in my uterus after this pregnancy will be aborted. But my husband is getting a vasectomy after this one arrives so we don't really need to worry about that.

That hypothetical scenario may be my only shot to having a child ever. o_o

Unwanted or product of rape or whatever, I'd take it.

Quoting sapherequeen:" That hypothetical scenario may be my only shot to having a child ever. o_o Unwanted or product of rape or whatever, I'd take it."

Why is that?

Quoting Kayla [ ]♥:" Why is that?"

I couldn't see myself having an abortion. I'd most likely just keep it. Maybe have it be a good product from something so dark.?
Idk :/

From where I stand right now, I'd keep the baby. If I had two kiddos right now, I'd abort. No way in hell can I have three kids.

Quoting sapherequeen:" I couldn't see myself having an abortion. I'd most likely just keep it. Maybe have it be a good product from something so dark.? Idk :/"

No no, I mean why would it be the only chance you'd have a baby?

Quoting Kayla [ ]♥:" No no, I mean why would it be the only chance you'd have a baby?"

I really don't see myself falling in love or getting close to any guy (or girl, I'm bi) in my future at this point. :/ Letting alone, having sex with anyone.
And I'd probably not be able to afford IVF or adoption.

Quoting sapherequeen:" I really don't see myself falling in love or getting close to any guy (or girl, I'm bi) in my future ... [snip!] ... in my future at this point. :/ Letting alone, having sex with anyone. And I'd probably not be able to afford IVF or adoption."

This is why they created turkey basters.

I'd abort. I really want a child and financially we could figure it out but my health is garbage.