Quoting bbbt:" I take Sprintec as well, so here is to hoping it worked in backing up the broken condom. I'm terrified TBH. "

*hugs* I'll have my fingers crossed for you.

It pisses me off when women talk about it like it's such an easy choice. "You had sex, deal with it." Um, smurf you. lol. There are a TON of factors involved, and rarely are any of these women abstinent. Or they have had perfect pregnancies and another would be no big deal. Sure, then it's EASY to say smurf like that. However, if they had difficult pregnancies, or they COULDN'T afford another child, or anything else I think they'd change their opinions a bit.

Quoting bbbt:" I take Sprintec as well, so here is to hoping it worked in backing up the broken condom. I'm terrified TBH. "

 
Good luck. I think I have a phobia of getting pregnant again. Honestly. I literally do not remember the last time I had sex because I don't want to even risk it.

Quoting she nan igans:" *hugs* I'll have my fingers crossed for you. It pisses me off when women talk about it like it's such ... [snip!] ... had difficult pregnancies, or they COULDN'T afford another child, or anything else I think they'd change their opinions a bit."

Thank you...

I know what you mean. It seems like the ones who have it so easy are the most vocal about their judgements.

Quoting Up In Smoke Signals:"   Good luck. I think I have a phobia of getting pregnant again. Honestly. I literally do not remember the last time I had sex because I don't want to even risk it."

I could not handle another miscarriage at this point in my life. I'm not strong enough. Every time s/o and I have sex that is in the back of my mind. I can never enjoy it.

Quoting MonMon2+1:" Honestly I don't think I could fathom abortion. I know it's controversial but for me I Could not do it. ... [snip!] ... do what you feel best but just remember that you conceived the baby no one else and it deserves a serious chance. Good luck."

Thanks, but this is purely hypothetical. I'm not pregnant.

Quoting bbbt:" Well, we had a broken condom a few weeks ago, so this very well could be my reality. Just waiting to ... [snip!] ... think we'll figure it out somehow. Abortion could also be a possibility. I would never give the baby up for adoption, though. "

I will be keeping my fingers crossed that this doesn't become reality for you! I'm sorry it's even a possibility  

I'd abort, I wouldn't even think twice about it.

Talk to my husband, get his take on it. I'm pro-choice, but I couldn't see myself going through with an abortion and he thinks he is pro-life. So I guess that's my answer, keep.

I would keep it. No second thoughts. But I'm sure the situation would be different if I already had a few kids. Right now I only have one.

i would have it. my baby wasn't planned and i really wasn't ready... emotionally or financially or in any way really. however i had her and its the best thing i have ever done. i couldnt be happier and if i could go back and change it i wouldnt. shes my heart. family and friends helped us out more then ever. im a waitress....even regulars at my restaurant helped me out in many ways.just my opinion

i would have it. my baby wasn't planned and i really wasn't ready... emotionally or financially or in any way really. however i had her and its the best thing i have ever done. i couldnt be happier and if i could go back and change it i wouldnt. shes my heart. family and friends helped us out more then ever. im a waitress....even regulars at my restaurant helped me out in many ways.just my opinion

I would abort hands down. I don't even think a second thought would cross my mind.

Abortion, ASAP. The guilt I'd have over my milk drying up and my daughters long-term health would trump any guilt I "might" feel if I aborted.

I would deal with it and be happy about it.

Quoting * Sara *:" I would deal with it and be happy about it."

What does "deal with it" mean?

Cause any choice you make is "dealing with it"