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If you were faced with an unwanted pregnancy tomorrow, wwyd?

I would abort	28% (47 votes)
I would put the baby up for adoption	4% (7 votes)
I would keep the baby and figure shit out	67% (111 votes)

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Sophia's Mommy♥

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posted 7th Oct

I'd keep it.

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I have 1 child & live in Hollywood, Florida

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Sweet Little Lies

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posted 7th Oct

I'd keep it and figure it out.

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I have 2 kids & live in Missouri

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ℳary ℐaneonline

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posted 7th Oct

Quoting Up In Smoke Signals:" Pretty sure abortion and adoption are also considered dealing with one's actions. "

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I have 2 kids & live in Fucking, Austria

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*Momlette*

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posted 7th Oct

I'd keep it.

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I'm due with 7 December 25th (it's a surprise), have 2 kids & live in Columbus, Ohio

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Jas ♥online

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posted 7th Oct

Quoting thewarmth:" Lol, not always. Reality checks in at some point."

Whether you keep, abort or adopt out, when you make one of those 3 choices, you are dealing with the situation.

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I live in Georgia

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Anthony's Mommy ♥

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posted 7th Oct

Hard to say because I'm not in that situation so it's really hard to picture myself in it. Right now, I would absolutely not be able to afford two kids in daycare, but I could become a SAHM again. That would mean no vacations, barely any extra spending money, but we could do it again. If we were in a situation where we actually would not be able to make it, I'd probably abort.

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I have 1 child & 1 angel baby & live in Pennsylvania

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Meg ღ ღ

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posted 7th Oct

I'd keep it and figure things out later.

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I live in Ohio

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Hodor(36 weeks)

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posted 7th Oct

I'd abort.

SO has three kids already.
I have one.

I am pregnant with our first together. Once this baby comes, we will have five kids.

I can't deal with more. Call me selfish, call me all you want...if I ever am pregnant again with 5 kids, I abort.

Buuuuuuut SO is getting a vasectomy after this baby comes so hopefully, I will never had to be placed in that situation.

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I'm due May 29th, have 1 child & 4 angel babies & live in Quebec

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ღFrodoliciousღ

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posted 7th Oct

We'd keep it. We'd figure something out, DD wasn't exactly planned either. I'd be more worried that my Mirena screwed something up and that I would MC than anything else...

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I'm TTC since April '13, have 1 child & live in Virginia

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mamaluvsher4babies

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posted 7th Oct

If I got pregnant again, I would adopt the baby out My hubby and I cannot afford another child. But I am getting my smurf tied after this one!!!

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I have 4 kids & 2 angel babies & live in California

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Danielle: Jack&Basil'sMom

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posted 7th Oct

I'd likely abort.

Lol @ so many women in here thinking that keeping it is the way to "man up" to this situation.

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I have 2 kids & live in Raleigh, North Carolina

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Atticus & Rhys's Mommy

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posted 7th Oct

Honestly I would probably keep it, although I should abort for medical reasons. I had preeclampsia my 1st, PIH with my 2nd and hemmoraged both times, my last time being pretty bad almost needed a blood transfusion.

But I would probably keep it though and just hope for the best medical health wise.

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I have 2 kids & live in Westfield, Massachusetts

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Dovahkiin

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posted 7th Oct

Well, we had a broken condom a few weeks ago, so this very well could be my reality. Just waiting to see if Aunt Flo shows up in a few days or not. If I'm pregnant... in my heart, I think we'll figure it out somehow. Abortion could also be a possibility. I would never give the baby up for adoption, though.

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I have 1 angel baby & live in Kentucky

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she nan igans

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posted 7th Oct

Quoting bbbt:" Well, we had a broken condom a few weeks ago, so this very well could be my reality. Just waiting to ... [snip!] ... think we'll figure it out somehow. Abortion could also be a possibility. I would never give the baby up for adoption, though. "

I'm always afraid of this. My tubes are tied, but I'm terrified of the idea of that failing.

With my pregnancies I end up on bedrest (or a preemie) for a long time. They are very complicated pregnancies, lol. I moved and have no family close by now. How on earth would I manage caring for two toddlers while on bedrest? Even dealing with adoption at that point becomes a moot point, but I have no idea how I'd even manage to get to that point!

This is seriously a huge fear of mine, lol. I feel like I don't think I could abort, but at the same time I haven't a clue how I'd make it work.

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I live in ?

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Dovahkiin

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posted 7th Oct

Quoting she nan igans:" I'm always afraid of this. My tubes are tied, but I'm terrified of the idea of that failing. With ... [snip!] ... a huge fear of mine, lol. I feel like I don't think I could abort, but at the same time I haven't a clue how I'd make it work."

I take Sprintec as well, so here is to hoping it worked in backing up the broken condom.

I'm terrified TBH.

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