Quoting bbbt:" Well, we had a broken condom a few weeks ago, so this very well could be my reality. Just waiting to ... [snip!] ... think we'll figure it out somehow. Abortion could also be a possibility. I would never give the baby up for adoption, though. "
I'm always afraid of this. My tubes are tied, but I'm terrified of the idea of that failing.
With my pregnancies I end up on bedrest (or a preemie) for a long time. They are very complicated pregnancies, lol. I moved and have no family close by now. How on earth would I manage caring for two toddlers while on bedrest? Even dealing with adoption at that point becomes a moot point, but I have no idea how I'd even manage to get to that point!
This is seriously a huge fear of mine, lol. I feel like I don't think I could abort, but at the same time I haven't a clue how I'd make it work.