Aborting would probably be the right choice, but I don't think I could do that. I think I'd figure smurf out.

If I got pregnant tomorrow... I would abort. There are too many kids who need to be adopted already and right now- I really can't afford another child. Three kids in daycare is expensive enough. We only have a 3 bedroom house, and the boys will be sharing a room as is, until we build our new home in the next couple years. If we had another boy, there wouldn't be any room! Plus, I'm trying to finish my degree and buy a few more apartment buildings all in one breath. It would be way too much right now, physically, mentally and financially for our family.

Although, I'm not sure if I could go through with an abortion... so who knows. We might end up with a fourth.

My 5 week old daughter is that baby. I went through my entire pregnancy alone, I was so scared and I wasn't financially stable either...but here we are, cuddling in bed and I couldn't be happier.

If I were pregnant again, right now, I would still have the baby and figure smurf out. Nothing against those who abort, but I personally couldn't do it. And adoption, nope..couldn't do that either.

Adoption is never an option for me, personally. My mother was adopted and had a horrible life, and I suck at being pregnant, my body hates it, don't want to risk my life if I don't have to.
I would probably abort.
I did exactly one year ago when we couldn't financially take care of another child. Was a great decision for us.
And this new pregnancy was planned, and I feel really great about it.
I wouldn't change my experiences and decisions for anything.

Abort, no money, can even barely take care of myself I won't bring an innocent child in this, and no, adoption is no option for me.

I would want to abort, although, my SO would be against it, because his ex had an abortion a long time ago and it smurfed him up.  

soo, i guess I would just make smurf work. *try* to at least.

lets just hope to smurfing hell that doesn't happen.  

Honestly I don't think I could fathom abortion. I know it's controversial but for me I
Could not do it. I would do what I could to keep it even though it was unwanted. If I really couldn't make it work it give it up for adoption. I know so many women who would die for a baby. To me, do what you feel best but just remember that you conceived the baby no one else and it deserves a serious chance. Good luck.

this is how this pregnancy was for me it wasnt planed at all it came as a huge shock and me and my bf didnt know what we would do he automatically wanted me to get an abortion but he said hed support me no matter what my decision was so i chose to go through with it and now me and him both can not wait till are daughter is here we both love her alot we didnt have anything really when i found out but we are making it work i even have a job wating till after i have my baby which is great we couldnt be happier with out chose but honestly if i were to get pregnant again soon after having this one idk what i would do i dont like the idea of an abortion but i would probably pick that route cuz i know we defiantly could not care for another child

<blockquote><b>Quoting Up In Smoke Signals:</b>" Pretty sure abortion and adoption are also considered dealing with one's actions. "</blockquote>




Yes they are. That's not how i meant for it to be taken. Just my own beliefs & i honestly couldn't ever go through with those options. It's just me personally. I am pro choice everyone has their own way of handling things but I'd have to keep it. Sorry if i offened anyone was not my intentions.

I would keep the baby, deal with the situation you got yourself into. In the end things work out

I'd just having the baby, I'm sure it'd be hard to warm up to the idea, but I'd warm up once I feel those first kicks, and hear that first cry! I'd just have to scramble to figure smurf out.

Quoting ♥ Rhienn ♥:" I would keep the baby, deal with the situation you got yourself into. In the end things work out"

Lol, not always.
Reality checks in at some point.

Quoting thewarmth:" Lol, not always. Reality checks in at some point."

I would about to say this too.

Yeah, things always work out. Sometimes they do so in a way that SUCKS.

Quoting 1+1=4..maybe more..:" <blockquote><b>Quoting Up In Smoke Signals:</b>" Pretty sure abortion and adoption ... [snip!] ... choice everyone has their own way of handling things but I'd have to keep it. Sorry if i offened anyone was not my intentions."

No offense taken, it just bums me out when people say that by keeping a baby that's dealing with their actions. I mean to each his/her own, I'm pro-choice and that's pro any choice that somebody makes. I just feel like all the options are dealing with the consequences of getting pregnant.

Quoting thewarmth:" Lol, not always. Reality checks in at some point."

Haha, right?
And sometimes things work out in different ways. For me, I stayed pregnant thinking "things would work out" and they DID, but they worked out to me giving her up and creating a family for somebody else.