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Adoption, would you ever D&D

posted 7th Oct
This is purely out of curiosity.
If you ever had the means and an opportunity to adopt, would you? Meaning, if you had enough money and it wasn't so difficult. And if you would, would you adopt from your own country or somewhere else?
I personally would love to adopt if I could afford it and if it wasn't so difficult. I probably would adopt a child from another country, probably third world for a few reasons. 1) being I would like to give the child opportunities they wouldn't have in their own country and 2) I wouldn't want to worry about the child's family trying and taking them back.
Also, would you want to adopt a newborn, infant, toddler, child, teenager? Would the race of the child matter to you?
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I'm due September 29th (a girl), have 1 child & 1 angel baby & live in Ontario
posted 7th Oct
I would adopt if I could

From my own country

And definitely NOT an infant. I'd get an older child
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I have 1 child & live in Rochester, New York
posted 7th Oct
Quoting Kelly&Coralie:" I would adopt if I could From my own country And definitely NOT an infant. I'd get an older child"

this i dont need to go threw sleep less nights again, but for people who can not or have not had kids they will adopt a baby.
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I have 2 kids & live in Palm Beach Gardens, Florida
posted 7th Oct
yes I would adopt! we actually thought about it after our first daughter was stillborn....
I would prefer from my own country first if we could...and would love a baby, but would take any child really
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I'm due April 1st, have 1 child & 1 angel baby & live in Pennsylvania
posted 7th Oct
Quoting Click Me Click Me!!!:" this i dont need to go threw sleep less nights again, but for people who can not or have not had kids they will adopt a baby. "



Well my thing is that there are ALWAYS people who will want a white newborn

I'd rather take in a kid that has been forced into the system and needs more help.
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I have 1 child & live in Rochester, New York
posted 7th Oct
I was adopted..so yes.
From america because foster care sucks..trust me.
A teen or preteen because they are less likely or sometimes not ever adopted because they are older and people dont want to deal with it.
As for the race..it really wouldnt matter to me..maybe my hubby however.
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I have 3 kids & live in Troy, Ohio
posted 7th Oct
Yes i would but from my own country first & I think I would do a toddler.
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I'm due January 6th (it's a surprise), have 3 angel babies & live in Florida
posted 7th Oct
Quoting NICKEL☮POLIS:" This is purely out of curiosity. If you ever had the means and an opportunity to adopt, would you? Meaning, ... [snip!] ... back. Also, would you want to adopt a newborn, infant, toddler, child, teenager? Would the race of the child matter to you?"

I would not. I can't see myself ever wanting a child so much that I'd jump through the hoops of adoption. I mean if it was a family member's child who needed a home or something I would but just a random baby? No.
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I have 10 kids & live in Georgia
posted 7th Oct
As desperate as we are for a daughter, I still don't think we ever would. If by some long shot we did, I wouldn't want an older child.
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I have 3 kids & live in Germany
posted 7th Oct
Quoting NICKEL☮POLIS:" This is purely out of curiosity. If you ever had the means and an opportunity to adopt, would you? Meaning, ... [snip!] ... back. Also, would you want to adopt a newborn, infant, toddler, child, teenager? Would the race of the child matter to you?"

If I wanted more kids, yes. Currently I'm done having kids, but if 5 or 10 years from now I feel like I want another, I'd adopt. I'd probably adopt from the US and the age would be from 1 or 2 up. My husband says he'd rather adopt a 2 year old, but I would probably prefer a little older. I know they don't get adopted much. I would not want to adopt a baby.

Race wouldn't matter a ton, but at the same time I'd be worried that I wouldn't be able to give a good connection to ones cultural background if they were not the same ethnicity as me. However, it wouldn't really matter I think in my choice.
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I live in ?
posted 7th Oct
I would adopt from my own country or from my son's country. I don't want any newborn, I'd like a toddler.
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I live in Georgia
posted 7th Oct
Someday, yes, if I have the means.
I'd want a special needs child, especially if I have lots of money.
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I have 3 kids & live in North Carolina
posted 7th Oct
DH and I have talked about this a few times, we would adopt from our own country and a child over the age of 10
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I have 4 kids & live in Columbus, Ohio
posted 7th Oct
Honestly I'd love to adopt, probably a little girl most likely only because I have 2 boys. If it wasnt so much money, I would totally be doing it. You would figure they would make it more reasonable for all types of families to adopt.
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I have 2 kids & live in Westfield, Massachusetts
posted 7th Oct
<blockquote><b>Quoting Jas ♥:</b>" I would adopt from my own country or from my son's country. I don't want any newborn, I'd like a toddler."</blockquote>




What country is your son father from????
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I'm due January 6th (it's a surprise), have 3 angel babies & live in Florida
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