I want to go loco on my babys father! pregnancy moodswings t

The past few weeks everything he does irritates me! He's just not ready to be a dad and its starting to scare me. We argue all the time (of course I start it with questions like... are you going to stop doing whatever when the babys here etc) when we first got together 5 years ago all we did was smoke pot. Since I am on probation and pregnant I can't do that so I am very moody pissed at the world and noticing all his flaws! He is my HS sweetheart and was my bestfriend for years before we even got together...

Any advice to keep the spice going? ?

id just do your best to not bite his head off at least til baby is born. and then your mood swings will get worse probably for the first 2 months after baby is here. make sure to let him know what hes in for. but make sure to tell him it does go away shortly after 2 months. some dont have the moodiness but most do. good luck.  

<blockquote><b>Quoting Breeanna Elwood:</b>" The past few weeks everything he does irritates me! He's just not ready to be a dad and its starting ... [snip!] ... He is my HS sweetheart and was my bestfriend for years before we even got together... Any advice to keep the spice going? ?"</blockquote>


I was on probation also wen I was pregnant but it is honestly a good thing it's best cus we all have temptations like I was a feene for ciggs befor I was preggo I know it doesn't show up in test lol but probation did open my eyes. And u being angry with baby dad is normal for many reasons like if he still smokes u might feel jelous cus he has all the freedom your matureing as your baby grows etc. But being mad won't help jus think positive and for guys it's different once he sees his baby he will mature a lot more I'm sure my babydad did he's a great dad now thank god lol . But it takes time you will get ur freedom back and you can smoke again but for now jus enjoy the moment your baby feels way u feel remember  ))

<blockquote><b>Quoting NessaLovely:</b>" <blockquote><b>Quoting Breeanna Elwood:</b>" The past few weeks everything he does ... [snip!] ... you will get ur freedom back and you can smoke again but for now jus enjoy the moment your baby feels way u feel remember  ))"</blockquote>




Its not like I am wanting to go crazy on him cause he smokes, I just see how dependent he is on the smurf. Its like come on you don't have to smoke every waking hour on the dime. Its like dude get your priorities straight. I love him but he is driving me nuts!. I sure hope your right its cute when we go to the hospital for a false alarm or something he gets all excited and prepared and pampers me. I guess time will tell ....  

I'm having problems with my bf too, just everything he does pisses me off, i cant stand him anymore, and it seems hes not ready for this baby, but i just keep telling myself i can not judge how he is with the baby until he actually meets the baby. We have already bonded with the baby, we feel them move and talk to them, we are moms already, to them our bellys are just getting bigger, so try not to judge him on the daddy part until the baby is here. With him pissing me off all the time i just try to walk away go into another room and relax after a while i will either get over it or calm down, I know im moody so i dont know if my hateing on him is me actually disliking him or im just pregnant and crazy.

It's your hormones I hated my Dh with my last baby everthing about him pissed me off. He just took my smurf and dealt with it, and when I'm not happy look out world. After I realized how much of a bitch I was I'm lucky he stayed. With this baby it's different my Dh is great and I don't dislike him just his cat the damn thing won't stop following me around 

Quoting jessthom89:" I'm having problems with my bf too, just everything he does pisses me off, i cant stand him anymore, ... [snip!] ... or calm down, I know im moody so i dont know if my hateing on him is me actually disliking him or im just pregnant and crazy."

HAHA this made me smile and im glad im not the only one going through this.
everything he does pisses me off i just want to strangle him   . maybe it is just me and I should chill out :/

Same with my baby's father.. but i put him aside when he makes me angry & just worry about the baby. It almost feel's like i'm preparing for 2 babies instead of 1 by how he acts sometimes :/.