Quoting Daniee:" I think it's extremely complicated. Hard to even think about but I probably would stay and try to work ... [snip!] ... out and confronted him and he still lied then I'd probably leave for a while but not permanently if I felt we could work on it."
Quoting ☮Sugar Magnolia:" I stayed. I regret it. He seemed sincere, but I learned he was just a huge con artist. He cheated from ... [snip!] ... month, then went to hell again. We finally broke up for good on Tuesday. I finally feel like I have a chance to be happy again."
Quoting Goldilocks*:" Good luck to you!!"
Quoting ☮Sugar Magnolia:" Thanks It's hard, but I'm truckin' along! "
Quoting Goldilocks*:" I always feel proud of people who leave a long term relationship, or a marriage, when it's difficult for them. Change that significant is really hard! Keep truckin' mama!"
Quoting Squeaky McGee:" He forgave me, so I'd forgive him. It would be hard, but I've learned the hard way that I can't live without him."
Quoting Almyk:" I had known my bf for 2 years before we made our relationship official. 6 months into our relationship ... [snip!] ... guess I should add, if it had been an actual physical thing, I don't know if I would've been able to stay. :/ Tough question "
Quoting ☮Sugar Magnolia:" I've left and felt so weak so many times, but this time enough was enough. I want to set a better example for DD and show her settling and abuse is NEVER okay. I'm proud of myself, too "
Quoting Goldilocks*:" I think a one time physical cheating would be easier to get over than an emotional relationship with someone he really cared for! Good for you guys for getting past it!"I think it would've been more emotional for me.. in the sense that we were each others first, and that if it had been physical, then I'd feel like I was being compared or wasn't "good enough".