Quoting Tavi:" If he's not willing to go to counseling, there's nothing you can do. He doesn't want to "fix" this problem. It kind of sounds like he doesn't know if he wants the family life anymore..."
Quoting Sonia[MOBAS]:" I would give him a divorce, he isn't going to be a very good husband to you. I am sorry."
Quoting Mary Wanzer:" Sounds like he may have depression. My daughters dad went through that and it's why we split up. Having ... [snip!] ... some people and i hope it will all work out for you and your family in the end! Just keep your head up high and stay strong!"
Quoting USAF wf&m:" He sounds like a jerk. And very insecure. If you want to work things out with him ask him to go to counseling ... [snip!] ... and girlfriend, he can't just decide every couple weeks that he doesn't want to be married. It's not fair to you at all."
Quoting BG Secrets:" I am still just so shocked that I literally have a panic attack when I think about us not being together. "
Quoting Sonia[MOBAS]:" I am sorry. It sucks. My ex husband was like that too except he would leave me for someone else and ... [snip!] ... to let go. Honestly, you won't be able to let go until you are ready......otherwise you will just keep trying to make it work."
Quoting Andee Meza:" Does he ever go out alone for long periods of time? If he says he's a bad person maybe he has a guilty ... [snip!] ... apart. When I fight with BD I go to my parents and then he misses me so bad so we forget what it is we were fighting about."