re: What would you do?

Quoting Meghan H:" He told me he did it because she attacked him and he lost his cool. After that incident he broke up with ... [snip!] ... her because he said he wasn't going to be with someone if they angered him to the point where he would put his hands on them."

uhm... he didn't just punch her, or slap her
you know what it takes to choke someone unconscious?

it's not like in the movies, man
it's graphic, and gory
there is like... wheezing, and turning pale, and scratching at the hands, and rolling of the eyes, and the tongue ...
and through it all, he kept choking, and choking, and choking
that's a sick smurfer
RUN!

<blockquote><b>Quoting Meghan H:</b>" He told me he did it because she attacked him and he lost his cool. After that incident he broke up with ... [snip!] ... her because he said he wasn't going to be with someone if they angered him to the point where he would put his hands on them."</blockquote>



There is a huge difference between restraining someone and choking them until they black out. She could have died, seriously.

Quoting Meghan H:" He told me he did it because she attacked him and he lost his cool. After that incident he broke up with ... [snip!] ... her because he said he wasn't going to be with someone if they angered him to the point where he would put his hands on them."

Ehhhh that's a little more than "losing his cool".  

Quoting Meghan H:" He told me he did it because she attacked him and he lost his cool. After that incident he broke up with ... [snip!] ... her because he said he wasn't going to be with someone if they angered him to the point where he would put his hands on them."

He broke up with her? after choking HER unconscious?

Truth be told, I would leave... that is EXTRA violent and then him leaving her seems sociopathic a bit.

Quoting ma ♥:" Ehhhh that's a little more than "losing his cool".  "

I agree... What if she did something random and he flew off the handle like that? My ex did smurf to me for no reason... NO REASON....

 

Quoting ma ♥:" Ehhhh that's a little more than "losing his cool".  "

seriously
it's like... most normal people would lose their lunches watching something like that

not in a movie, but in reality, you'd throw up

to actually be capable of doing that... is sick. that's not a healthy person at all.
run, OP, run.

Is he in any way violent towards you or your children? Does he have a short temper? If so I would leave if I were you because you never know.

Some people can change though so that's a tough question and situation.