Poof ;) thanks!

Sounds like he works very hard and needed to blow off some steam.

Find a hobby, join a Mom & Tot group, get out of the house and do something with the kids.

I'd feel the same way hun, that's why SO doesn't go out with his friends because he works with them all week...he'd prob go if I wasn't such a bitch about it.  

He asked if you were okay with it, and you said yes, so kinda only have yourself to blame. Not meaning to be mean. But you could have said "Well I was hoping we could ___________ together tonight."

No I wouldn't be mad.

<blockquote><b>Quoting 💙Jenny&Boopy:</b>" Ok, lol hopefully a post and run if my LO stays asleep because my ass needs to get some rest. Anyways, ... [snip!] ... Anyways I'll smurf up before I ramble on even more. Do you guys think I'm just being a crybaby? Or would you be upset too?"</blockquote>




You're being a crybaby if you didn't speak up.

Next time, try "can you maybe go over for just an hour or two or something? I don't get much time with you ---i really miss you and I'm a little lonely for adult interaction"

Or get slutty and make it worth his whole to stay home and not go at all?

Quoting speaktruth2powr:" Sounds like he works very hard and needed to blow off some steam. Find a hobby, join a Mom & Tot group, get out of the house and do something with the kids."

OP works hard too...

I understand where you're coming from, my husband is asleep right now and I'm all alone. It's tough being a SAHM, it's very isolating and lonely. But he probably needed to blow off some stream too, maybe go with him next time or just the 2 or you go out.

BTW, I'm from Pittsburgh too

Happens to me all that time. DH is getting ready to go hunting for 2 weeks too so I will see him even less. I think you're feeling pretty normal : ) DH always goes out to drink on drill weekends too and I let him because I can't stand the guys who's wives never let them go out and don't trust them and all that. I try to let him have fun when he can. He works hard so he needs some play time too : )

<blockquote><b>Quoting speaktruth2powr:</b>" Sounds like he works very hard and needed to blow off some steam. Find a hobby, join a Mom & Tot group, get out of the house and do something with the kids."</blockquote>


I would love to but I don't have a valid license right now so I can't drive anywhere.

<blockquote><b>Quoting bia.:</b>" I'd feel the same way hun, that's why SO doesn't go out with his friends because he works with them all week...he'd prob go if I wasn't such a bitch about it.  "</blockquote>


I just don't know lol I feel like an smurf whether I say something or not.

i would be upset but i do the same thing and then when he gets home i tell him how i felt because if i didnt let him go i would feel guilty or they have there ways to make you feel guilty if they stayed so you just let them go.but maybe you should just tell him how you feel so you dont bottle your feelings and take it out on your others or him and not relize it but be calm.

I'd be annoyed but let him bc he does work hard, even though the see escorted at work its not the same as hanging out and relaxing with done drinks. Find a hobby to do with the kids. I no its hard bc I go through it to

<blockquote><b>Quoting I'm His Amy He's My Rory:</b>" He asked if you were okay with it, and you said yes, so kinda only have yourself to blame. Not meaning to be mean. But you could have said "Well I was hoping we could ___________ together tonight.""</blockquote>


I know   I suck at confrontation, not that it'd be a fight if I said no but I hate people getting mad at me and even though he probably wouldn't get mad, idk I just suck at speaking up.

<blockquote><b>Quoting P Pickle Pants:</b>" <blockquote><b>Quoting 💙Jenny&Boopy:</b>" Ok, lol hopefully a post and run ... [snip!] ... you and I'm a little lonely for adult interaction" Or get slutty and make it worth his whole to stay home and not go at all?"</blockquote>


Yeah, I need to try to learn to open my mouth.