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DH works and then comes home and works on building our house every day. When he has free time he spends it all on his Xbox, and I can't even talk to him because he's always on the mic.   I'm so lonely and I miss spending time with him, but he pisses me off because he doesn't even bother trying to spend time with DD and I. As soon as he gets off his Xbox he falls straight to sleep.

Communication is key. Be the first to step up and speak. ...
Good luck hun!

Quoting **Hanna**:" Communication is key. Be the first to step up and speak. ... Good luck hun!"

I already told him he needs to spend more time with me and DD instead of his brother and friends on there. I ask him nicely every day. Idk what to say to him anymore.

Do you help on the house atall? Or do you work? Maybe he is feeling frustrated and feels like he is doing everything?? Like others said, just talk to him and see what's going on : )

Well you could always buy something sexy to wear strap on some high heels and grab a bottle of wine and two glasses and set up the room all romantic lile and just see what he says lol... Or walk.in naked lmbo

Quoting E.P. Mom:" Do you help on the house atall? Or do you work? Maybe he is feeling frustrated and feels like he is doing everything?? Like others said, just talk to him and see what's going on : )"

I can't help him work on the house because we don't have anyone to babysit DD. I'm a SAHM I do the cooking, cleaning, laundry and take care of DD 24/7.

Quoting Angel Wilder:" Well you could always buy something sexy to wear strap on some high heels and grab a bottle of wine and ... [snip!] ... a bottle of wine and two glasses and set up the room all romantic lile and just see what he says lol... Or walk.in naked lmbo"

Lol yeah maybe that will get his attention.

I have to do it sometimes lol... They cant refuse the nakedness calling them... Bahaha maybe thats how we are on number four pregnancy... Lol

I know how you feel. My DH has 2 jobs and Wednesday-Saturday he works his day job comes h

I know how you feel. My DH has 2 jobs and Wednesday-Saturday he works his day job comes hOme, goes straight to te bedroom to nap so he can leave for his second job by 6 and doesn't get home till 3 am. I tend to be bitchy a lot during those days because I never see him but I'm working on that because he is just doing what he has to do to provide for us. When you can get the time just talk to him.

Quoting jordan.ℓeigh✿:" DH works and then comes home and works on building our house every day. When he has free time he spends ... [snip!] ... because he doesn't even bother trying to spend time with DD and I. As soon as he gets off his Xbox he falls straight to sleep."

I hate video games -_- This is exactly the reason my SO doesn't have them. Call me a bitch but I don't think they are worth the relationship problems!

<blockquote><b>Quoting NICKEL☮POLIS:</b>" I hate video games -_- This is exactly the reason my SO doesn't have them. Call me a bitch but I don't think they are worth the relationship problems!"</blockquote>

So he can decide you can't use BG then too, right? It is only fair. My DH is a gamer so I know that BG can be just as time consuming as gaming. Just wondering.

Quoting Mama Rice:" <blockquote><b>Quoting NICKEL☮POLIS:</b>" I hate video games -_- This is exactly ... [snip!] ... then too, right? It is only fair. My DH is a gamer so I know that BG can be just as time consuming as gaming. Just wondering."

Yes if he told me he didn't want me here anymore then I wouldn't be. No forum or game is worth ruining our relationship. Though with BG I still get my smurf done. And he can still game on the computer all he wants.. he just doesn't have a system.