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Do you & your dude have the same? -POLL-

Yes we have the same/similar
 
29% (40 votes)
No, one of us has a higher drive than the other
 
70% (98 votes)
...other
 
1% (2 votes)

Do you & your dude have the same? -POLL-

posted 6th Oct
Sex drives?
Or similar.

I really dont need to know what they are (raging sex drives or otherwise) i'm just wondering if they match.
And if they don't match, does that create problems between the two of you?
Frustrations, etc.

Just curious  
Dude and I do, and it leaves me frustrated, alot.
And this is my first experience being with someone who isn't as sex-hungry as me.
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I have 3 kids & live in Washington
posted 6th Oct
Nope.  

It's frustrating.
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I have 3 kids & live in New York
posted 6th Oct
I have WAY higher.
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I have 1 child & live in South Carolina
posted 6th Oct
Now that I'm off of birth control our sex drives are about equal but we never have time for sex lol. When I was on birth control I had zero sex drive and it sucked lol.
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I have 2 kids & live in Denton, Texas
posted 6th Oct
They're pretty similar
If one of us isn't horny the other will just masterbate or something lol
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I'm due January 6th, have 1 child & live in Missouri
posted 6th Oct
Well I have no sex drive..so yes we do very much haha
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I have 1 child & live in Pittsburgh, Pennsylvania
posted 6th Oct
Yes and no. I want it more but I'm lazier and don't bother with it. He wants it less but acts in it more when he does. So yes and no.


It's never been a problem really, we're both busy a lot so...it's just not an issue.
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I have 3 kids & live in Los Angeles, California
posted 6th Oct
Nope we dont, I find it very frustrating. I hate that I want sex everyday atleast and hes more 3-4 times a weeks. When we first met we were on the same page but he has since gotten comfortable.  
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I'm due October 6th (a boy), have 1 child & 2 angel babies & live in Massachusetts
posted 6th Oct
Quoting JessieLeeAnne:" I have WAY higher."

Me toooo. Dude is 9 years older than me, and has to get up at 4:30 am for work, but i'm always like, "we're too young, to be too tired for sex".

haha, i'm used to being with someone who uses every possible opportunity to be doing it  
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I have 3 kids & live in Washington
posted 6th Oct
It's normally similar but since in pregnant inhale no sex drive lol. I just threw hubby off me & came downstairs to surf bg haha
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I'm due February 24th (a girl), have 1 child & 1 angel baby & live in Stratham, New Hampshire
posted 6th Oct
Quoting Dr. Paradigm Shift:" Yes and no. I want it more but I'm lazier and don't bother with it. He wants it less but acts in it more ... [snip!] ... in it more when he does. So yes and no. It's never been a problem really, we're both busy a lot so...it's just not an issue."

I'm bad. like, since he has an early bedtime during the week, come friday/saturday, my head is geared for sex that night the second i wake up. so if something gets in the way of that, i'll like, irrationally/hormonely freak out and he'll have no clue why, ha.

whenever we have sex, he's like, 'well, that should hold you off for 10 minutes'.
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I have 3 kids & live in Washington
posted 6th Oct
ours is completely different. i want it all day every day SO isn't like that at all. it causes squabbles, and i get frustrated a lot.
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I'm due December 13th, have 1 child & 1 angel baby & live in Ohio
posted 6th Oct
Quoting ✩BG Addict✩:" ours is completely different. i want it all day every day SO isn't like that at all. it causes squabbles, and i get frustrated a lot."


Sounds like us.
The kids had a day with their grandparents today, which just about never happens when we have time, just us. and as soon as they left, dude looks at me and goes, "you wanna do it, huh?" YUP   cos seriously, no kids in the house....it'd be just poor time management NOT to do it!
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I have 3 kids & live in Washington
posted 6th Oct
I have my days where he wants it more than I do. But, we have the same logic and its "There is NO reason to turn down sex" if the timing is off, there's always later. If you're not in the mood, TRY to get into the mood or suck it up and take one for the team lol. But, you never flat out say NO lol. There has been a few times where I didn't want to, nor did I wanna let him try to get me in the mood, but I let him do his deed lol. He never leaves home horny or hungry  

Lol, I guess it works for us
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I'm due January 16th (it's a surprise), have 2 kids & live in Victorville, California
posted 6th Oct
His is WAY higher. I used to want to all the time. But since having DS and BFing i don't hardly have a drive. It leaves him frustrated a lot. Not to mention DS is usually an interruption when i am in the mood
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I have 1 child & 1 angel baby & live in Germantown, Ohio
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