Threesomes???

Ok im still debating whether to have one or not... im married with 2 kids and i just dont want it to hurt our relationship but we both have considered just to try out and see what its all about. Did you do it? With who? Friend... stranger... any info where did you guys go to get it on... how did it start? Thanks ladies...

<blockquote><b>Quoting 2Girls & Blessed:</b>" Ok im still debating whether to have one or not... im married with 2 kids and i just dont want it to ... [snip!] ... you do it? With who? Friend... stranger... any info where did you guys go to get it on... how did it start? Thanks ladies..."</blockquote>




I had one with a guy friend a long time ago and a girl I knew. It really makes things awkward IMO between you and the other girl because i.havent talked to her since. I would.never consider one with my husband just for the off chance it could destroy what we have

Yes I did it, numerous times. It was with a trusted friend and it hasnt ruined our relationship at all. Been married for 5 years, together for 10 years. I'm bisexual and I actually enjoy them as well as my husband. It takes alot of trust and if you are committed to your relationship.

Sometimes its ruins couples.

Don't do it!!!!!! If you do with a guy you're hubby will wonder if the other guy is better & you the same.

Quoting Atticus & Rhys's Mommy:" Yes I did it, numerous times. It was with a trusted friend and it hasnt ruined our relationship at all. ... [snip!] ... them as well as my husband. It takes alot of trust and if you are committed to your relationship. Sometimes its ruins couples."

your relationship lenght is just like mines and we have a good friend of ours that she once made a comment to my hubby saying if i was down.. so we have considered her but never brought it up yet..

Quoting True Diva:" Don't do it!!!!!! If you do with a guy you're hubby will wonder if the other guy is better & you the same."

Oh well we never considered that... we always wanted to try with a girl... but yeah thanks for that one...

DH and I would like to. We have talked about it and are half heartily looking.

We don't want it to be anyone we know.

Just make sure you are doing it because YOU want to do it...Not just because your husband wants to do it  

They're fun but you definitely need everyone involved to be on the same page before you do it. And have to really trust everyone involved.

I'm all for having one when you KNOW you dont need to worry about your SO and the other girl starting a relationship behind your back, lol. Though my ex did this with his ex wife, but with the guy she left him for in the end.. he thought it'd help their marriage, it didn't. She left him for the guy they had the 3some with.


So I'd be weary, unless the person is YOUR contact lol. But that is just me

Quoting *...*...*...*:" DH and I would like to. We have talked about it and are half heartily looking. We don't want it to ... [snip!] ... anyone we know. Just make sure you are doing it because YOU want to do it...Not just because your husband wants to do it  "

yes... i know we both want to try it out... thanks

Quoting 2Girls & Blessed:" your relationship lenght is just like mines and we have a good friend of ours that she once made a comment to my hubby saying if i was down.. so we have considered her but never brought it up yet.."

Well it has to be a mutual thing also youd have to trust he wouldnt go behind your back and sleep with her without you then by all means try it. I enjoy them, havent had one since i had my son almost 4 years ago. But I still mess around with woman on the side. My husband knows.....but we enjoyed them, hasnt ruined us. Anyone who says it totally ruins a relationship is full of smurf!

I would claw out someone eyes if they so much as looked sideways at DH and I have no desire whatsoever to be with anyone but him.

<blockquote><b>Quoting 2Girls & Blessed:</b>" Oh well we never considered that... we always wanted to try with a girl... but yeah thanks for that one..."</blockquote>




I did it both male & female & one of the guys became jealous of hours friend who was bigger & my guy friend became jealous of the girl we were with.

if you aren't 100% sure, i would not do it.

set ground rules. in my mind, i think i'd be okay with SO smurfing another girl, but i do not want her mouth on his dick - that seems way more intimate to me.

i wanted to really bad, and so did SO (well, mainly for my pleasure) - but we fell in love fast, and he didn't feel like it was right anymore so we never did. I still want to and hope maybe one day he will, too.

there's one friend i'd do it with, but other than that - idk.

Quoting Atticus & Rhys's Mommy:" Well it has to be a mutual thing also youd have to trust he wouldnt go behind your back and sleep with ... [snip!] ... My husband knows.....but we enjoyed them, hasnt ruined us. Anyone who says it totally ruins a relationship is full of smurf!"

yeah she is married too and has kids we have known her for over 10 years! so she knows whats up as far as trust and all that good stuff... did you ever mess around with only her and he was not home? Did your SO mess around with her when you were not there? Did you guys have it open like that? Or always all together?