Quoting 2Girls & Blessed:" your relationship lenght is just like mines and we have a good friend of ours that she once made a comment to my hubby saying if i was down.. so we have considered her but never brought it up yet.."
Well it has to be a mutual thing also youd have to trust he wouldnt go behind your back and sleep with her without you then by all means try it. I enjoy them, havent had one since i had my son almost 4 years ago. But I still mess around with woman on the side. My husband knows.....but we enjoyed them, hasnt ruined us. Anyone who says it totally ruins a relationship is full of smurf!