re: Threesomes???

Quoting JiLLiAN.:" if you aren't 100% sure, i would not do it. set ground rules. in my mind, i think i'd be okay with SO ... [snip!] ... never did. I still want to and hope maybe one day he will, too. there's one friend i'd do it with, but other than that - idk."

really his dick in her mouth is worse then his dick in her vagina?!! LOL I dont get that one, but okay!

we did kind of a swap out. wasn't sex really but close enough. it was mutual friends. she was an ex gf of mine and we all met in hs (minus her husband that graduated quite a few yrs before us). we're all still close friends

Quoting Atticus & Rhys's Mommy:" really his dick in her mouth is worse then his dick in her vagina?!! LOL I dont get that one, but okay!"

to me, yeah. *shrugs*

Quoting 2Girls & Blessed:" yeah she is married too and has kids we have known her for over 10 years! so she knows whats up as ... [snip!] ... home? Did your SO mess around with her when you were not there? Did you guys have it open like that? Or always all together?"

I have messed around with her without him and he has never done anything with her without me, as far as I know of. But I have no worries in that department.

Quoting Atticus & Rhys's Mommy:" really his dick in her mouth is worse then his dick in her vagina?!! LOL I dont get that one, but okay!"

They're both bad but I think I have to agree. Mouth to genitals is more intimate.

I did once with a female friend of mine and her male friend. We were all inyoxicated...but it wasn't awkward at all, I am still best friends with her and have a friendship with the guy now. We still talk abmnd laugh about it. It started with us all attempting to fall asleep, not in diff places in my friends apt. Adam joked about it and with us girls be drunk we were intrigued by the idea and it just went from there.

Lol

Quoting 2Girls & Blessed:" yeah she is married too and has kids we have known her for over 10 years! so she knows whats up as ... [snip!] ... home? Did your SO mess around with her when you were not there? Did you guys have it open like that? Or always all together?"

Oh, well hell if she's married then maybe it could help your sexual relationship, or at least stir things up! I'd still be careful though I feel it's a gamble when you know the person personally.

Quoting JiLLiAN.:" to me, yeah. *shrugs*"

I feel the same way, I think I wouldn't like to more if she were to go down on him. But that's kinda my thing if that makes sense LOL

I want to try it, but we don't know anybody so it's hard lol

Quoting CandyKisses313:" Oh, well hell if she's married then maybe it could help your sexual relationship, or at least stir things up! I'd still be careful though I feel it's a gamble when you know the person personally."

well we only say that because she said one time she is down to have one... not just to us but she is that type of person and we field wierd picking up a stranger at a club and who knows what she might have or where she been thats why im saying lol

<blockquote><b>Quoting 2Girls & Blessed:</b>" your relationship lenght is just like mines and we have a good friend of ours that she once made a comment to my hubby saying if i was down.. so we have considered her but never brought it up yet.."</blockquote>

I wouldnt just becuz she made the gesture first sometimes that can cause issues bcuz of underlying feelings

How can you say marriage vows to another person and even want to/think/consider sexing another person?

I just do not understand this thinking.

Quoting ~Julie Blue Eyes~:" How can you say marriage vows to another person and even want to/think/consider sexing another person? I just do not understand this thinking."

  
its not for everyone but there obviously are a lot that enjoy it.

nor do i recall sex ever being mentioned in anyone's vows.

<blockquote><b>Quoting JiLLiAN.:</b>"    its not for everyone but there obviously are a lot that enjoy it. nor do i recall sex ever being mentioned in anyone's vows."</blockquote>


Right. Because marriage vows aren't specifically about sex....what a fantastic point.

The sanctity of marriage is lost on you, I see. :8

Quoting ~Julie Blue Eyes~:" <blockquote><b>Quoting JiLLiAN.:</b>"    its not for everyone but there ... [snip!] ... marriage vows aren't specifically about sex....what a fantastic point. The sanctity of marriage is lost on you, I see. :8"

This thread isn't about arguing the issue. I don't even agree with it and I say you're out of line trying to argue it.

Quoting ~Julie Blue Eyes~:" <blockquote><b>Quoting JiLLiAN.:</b>"    its not for everyone but there ... [snip!] ... marriage vows aren't specifically about sex....what a fantastic point. The sanctity of marriage is lost on you, I see. :8"

what authority do you have to say how a marriage between to people should be? Oooooh that's right none. GTFO.