my change of perspective

I just wanted to say.. even though I have never had an abortion, I came to this site with my firm beliefs on it, and closed minded views of the matter.. but this site had truly opened my eyes that abortion isnt just a loss of a child but also a loss to the mom aswell. I just always had this view that woman who aborted had no emotions along with doing it, and they just didnt care. Im thankful for the stories and experiences that ive read here that have opened my eyes.

Well that is good!!!!!

Good, I am glad you found the truth.

It hurts my heart thinking how most of the woman here who have had to go through that must feel. I cant even imagine.

I think that would really make the day of someone who's had to make that decision.

I don't think anyone's ever gotten an abortion without it beating them down a little, even if it didn't affect them until later.

Yeah i never really took that into my thought process.

Quoting Chroma Hex [+1]:" I think that would really make the day of someone who's had to make that decision. I don't think anyone's ... [snip!] ... don't think anyone's ever gotten an abortion without it beating them down a little, even if it didn't affect them until later."

mine affected me afterwards... now it really doesnt affect me at all... maybe except when my smurf head of an ex calls me a baby killer.  

I read your story, he can rot in hell. he is an idiot, idk who would marry that douchebag.

Quoting Tiffany Gillette:" I read your story, he can rot in hell. he is an idiot, idk who would marry that douchebag."

lol.   Thanks.

Quoting Yurvette [♥]:" mine affected me afterwards... now it really doesnt affect me at all... maybe except when my smurf head of an ex calls me a baby killer.  "

Honestly, I think having an abortion is as bad, if not worse, than a m/c, and I don't think a lot of people see it that way.

It takes a strong person to be able to make that decision for themselves.

<blockquote><b>Quoting Yurvette [♥]:</b>" lol.   Thanks. "</blockquote>


Youre welcome, and im so serious. The one time i took street drugs

, i didnt know i was pregnant, amd found out the next day, i ended up having a miscarriage.. im assuming its because of that. but my ex said the samething to me. so even tho i dont know how u feel, i can kinda see how youd feel. they can both rot in hell together lol.

I can agree with that.. because a miscarriage is something you cant control so even though its a loss, you dont carry the same amount of guikt along with it, like u do for an abortion

Quoting Chroma Hex [+1]:" Honestly, I think having an abortion is as bad, if not worse, than a m/c, and I don't think a lot of people see it that way. It takes a strong person to be able to make that decision for themselves."

If you read my story... I didnt really choose it. My oldest sons father [who wasnt the dad to the baby I was pregnant with] told me it was the baby or him. So I chose him. I didnt have a choice but I did. Its hard to explain. I was emotionally beaten down..

I have opened up more to it since being on this site as well. But my beliefs in my personal self still stay I will never get an abortion. I believe it's a personal choice. I don't completely agree with it but I won't bad mouth someone for it.

<blockquote><b>Quoting Daniee:</b>" I have opened up more to it since being on this site as well. But my beliefs in my personal self still ... [snip!] ... never get an abortion. I believe it's a personal choice. I don't completely agree with it but I won't bad mouth someone for it."</blockquote>


I feel the same way. its not for me, i cringe at the thought of anyone elses experience let alone me. but thats why i admire and feel for them, cause theyre stronger than me in a way... but im also pregnant lol so that could also be why im so emotional