re: never tell a pregnant women..

Quoting Irish Mammy*J,R&A*:" I hate that too, especially when my stepmum would tell me what I can and cant do and how she went on ... [snip!] ... whos never been pregnant and lies in bed complaining of how bad it hurts when she on her period....yeh sure you wouldnt love"

HA! That's funny and would be slightly annoying.

I completely agree with hating when people telling you what/what not to eat! I went to the gas station and grabbed me an arizona and some hot cheetos, and this old lady goes "That's not good for your baby ya know"....I was like "Yeah, neither is pissing me off". Like I eat them all the time.......smurf off lady..

But I don't understand why hearing things about how big you are when you're pregnant is annoying. Personally, I love hearing how big I am because I know they're talking about my baby belly, not ME.

Quoting Lizzle06:" Another one that bothers me, and I'm shocked how often I get this...When I tell people I'm having a girl, ... [snip!] ... to be on my feet all day...I'm not disabled! Pregnancy does not equal lying down all day with your feet up...exercise is good!"

I have one boy who is 1 year and 7 months old and a girl who is 3 weeks old and everybody keeps telling me that now that ive had one of each i can stop now and get my tubes tied. im fricken 22 years old and i will not get my tubes tied this young. My boyfriend and i both agreed and promised eachother that after we get married we want 2 more children. then hes gonna get fixed. we are hoping to have 2 more before we are 30 years old.
or another thing strangers have told me when they seen i was pregnant was oh your children are so close together. you just couldnt wait could you. its like no ass face i could wait.

I'm glad I'm not the only one bothered by that! I can't believe how common it is too...None of your business if I'm gonna get my tubes tied! And so what if I wanna have more kids...if I'm able to support them and I want them what's wrong with that? It's just unheard of to have more than 2 nowadays apparently.

Quoting Irish Mammy*J,R&A*:" My friends in hospital being induced for medical reasons and people keep commenting on her status saying ... [snip!] ... and just ready to meet your baby. What other things do you think you shouldnt say to a pregnant women/are annoying to hear?"

I agree with you! I was induced with my son to try and reduce complications I had with my first delivery due to her being a bigger baby and dr was hoping that if I was induced that he would either be around my daughters size or a bit smaller. That wasn't the case though ended up with a post partum hemmeraghe.

There was one lady at work that felt it necessary to tell me almost everyday that I looked miserable. Seriously she figured it out all by herself, shew. All I could was grin and say yeah. In my head I was thinking, not as miserable as your make-up ya hag, baha.

i'm getting tired of every single person looking at me and saying, 'yeah, we'll see about that' or 'that's what you say now' after i tell them i'm not planning on any medication when i give birth.
like bitch why are you asking if you've already figured out what i can't handle? i didn't know you were me!
jesus.

Quoting BMG:" There was one lady at work that felt it necessary to tell me almost everyday that I looked miserable. ... [snip!] ... by herself, shew. All I could was grin and say yeah. In my head I was thinking, not as miserable as your make-up ya hag, baha."

My SO's mom is has been here for a week now and she tells me this everyday. Yes my due date was this past sunday however I'm not miserable. yea I ache however that comes with baby sitting low.

Quoting Erica ☆★:" I completely agree with hating when people telling you what/what not to eat! I went to the gas station ... [snip!] ... pregnant is annoying. Personally, I love hearing how big I am because I know they're talking about my baby belly, not ME. "

This ^^ makes me want hot cheetos now lol
I haven't had them in so long.
Now I'm gonna have to see if SO can pick me up some on his way home from work. I'm glad no one tells me what to eat because I would freak out on them. I don't think I eat too bad anyways, the past 2 weeks I was eating a lot of chocolate but I was super craving it. (thank goodness I don't have those cravings this week, now I'm just a bottomless pit for anything) People do tell me not to drink coffee (which I HATE) especially because I only drink it when I crave it which isn't everyday & I always get it made with half decaf and I never drink espresso.

I live with my SO and his two sisters and I'm sick of everyone telling me what I NEED to be doing. ugh... Like if I drink a soda it'll be "I noticed you drank that and it bothered me a little, Caffein is so terrible for the baby".. seriously?? WTF? Or that I need to walk everyday. I do walk a lot, but no, not everyday.
Or that the baby will come when she's ready. And I especially hate being asked if I'm having a c-section. I get that ALL the time. I'm like wtf? Why would I CHOOSE to have one unless I had to? Also hate that they asked if I was having an epidural and I said I'm going to try not to and as soon as I said that they were both like "Get the epidural. You're definitely going to want it. You're going to change your mind at the hospital".
And last one (I promise haha), one of my SO's sisters has a 2.5 year old boy who is very much a brat. Whenever he throws a fit (everyday) she looks at us and says "See what you have to look forward to?"... I just wanna scream "No I won't because I will actually discipline my child!!"

Quoting TashiaK:" I live with my SO and his two sisters and I'm sick of everyone telling me what I NEED to be doing. ugh... ... [snip!] ... says "See what you have to look forward to?"... I just wanna scream "No I won't because I will actually discipline my child!!""

That last one on your list is me too. My mom doesn't discipline my little brother well and she gives in to what he wants ALL the time. & when he starts throwing a fit she goes "see what you're going to look forward to?" & I just wanna say "nope, because I am actually going to discipline my child" but I just laugh it off, smile, and shake my head. She gets so mad if I say anything about it.

Quoting can111:" That last one on your list is me too. My mom doesn't discipline my little brother well and she gives ... [snip!] ... going to discipline my child" but I just laugh it off, smile, and shake my head. She gets so mad if I say anything about it."

Lol I hear ya. It gets very old very quickly. And it's not even funny! lol

It is really annoying when my cousin who hasn't even had a kid tells you your back pain couldn't be that bad. oh no i only have 5 pounds of baby on my spine it feels wonderful -.-

Quoting Andrea0510:" It is really annoying when my cousin who hasn't even had a kid tells you your back pain couldn't be that bad. oh no i only have 5 pounds of baby on my spine it feels wonderful -.-"

Basically anything anyone whos never been pregnant says about how its not that bad, they know how they feel or general advice pissed me off

I was due on the 4th and ended up having her on the 10th .. Everyone said to me about having an epidural and said I would need one as labour is horrible .. It turned out I only needed gas and air and my labour was 2 hours long .. My point is people shouldn't tell you what you need.. Especially the ones that doesn't have kids .. That pisses me off x