i give up!!!

I'm just going to give up with trying to have a sex life. On the week days my husband has to work early so none there due to him needing to go to bed so he don't wreck his 18 Wheeler. Now it's Friday night I got baby to bed after I got a shower and shaved everything for him. We crawl in bed and I start nibbling on his ears kissing his neck and he just pushes me off. I looked at him and said what not in the mod or something and he said " nope. Already took care of myself in the shower but we can cuddle." Like really!!! If I just wanted to cuddle I wouldn't be trying!!! I'm so sick and tired of him telling me we can have sex or be intimate and then turn me down when I try.

tell him how him doing that is making you feel.then maybe you wont have to give up.is he not trying anything at all?? if so id research him out a bit.(see if hes going other places) not to freak you out or anything but just check everything out. good luck!

OMG I thought I was alone!! My SO has been working a lot and then gets high when he gets home, or has his buddies over, so by the time we go to bed he's completely not in the mood. I feel so smurfing unattractive. We use to be all over each other up til a few weeks ago. We haven't even done foreplay. He says morning are best but then his tummy always hurts because he has IBS and eats junk. I just wanna smurfing get laid!!!!!! hahahahah is that so much to ask for....I thought having a horny girlfriend is every guys dream.

<blockquote><b>Quoting Cassie Cummings:</b>" tell him how him doing that is making you feel.then maybe you wont have to give up.is he not trying anything ... [snip!] ... him out a bit.(see if hes going other places) not to freak you out or anything but just check everything out. good luck!"</blockquote>




He grabs me turns me on to the point I'm basically dripping (tmi) then just ends like that. I don't think he is doing anything due to his schedule and when he's off work I go everywhere with him until today 

<blockquote><b>Quoting Rydicule91:</b>" OMG I thought I was alone!! My SO has been working a lot and then gets high when he gets home, or has ... [snip!] ... wanna smurfing get laid!!!!!! hahahahah is that so much to ask for....I thought having a horny girlfriend is every guys dream. "</blockquote>




RIGHT!!! I miss foreplay I miss having sex to the point I just couldn't take anymore! Ughhh men are turning gay I swear LOL I'm sorry but when you can stand infornt of a Guy whom is supposedly in love with you and do what ya want to me and they just go to bed there's a problem there

i would just straight up tell him what you want then.and tell him to stop being a tease(lol) maybe have someone watch the lil one for a night maybe thats why hes stopping..

Quoting Laythens Mama:" <blockquote><b>Quoting Rydicule91:</b>" OMG I thought I was alone!! My SO has been ... [snip!] ... infornt of a Guy whom is supposedly in love with you and do what ya want to me and they just go to bed there's a problem there"

Thats exactly what I'm thinking. Only legit explanation. I don't get it...I could have this baby anytime almost, (37 weeks+5) and after that no sex for at least 6 weeks. What doesn't he get about that!!! Cuz I know he's gonna want it when he knows he can't have it. At least he touches you in some sexual way. I haven't been hardly even looked at   the last time he checked me out was because I walked around naked about to hop in the shower a week ago. Maybe if I just walk around naked all the time it'll spark him a boner lol !!! 

<blockquote><b>Quoting Cassie Cummings:</b>" i would just straight up tell him what you want then.and tell him to stop being a tease(lol) maybe have someone watch the lil one for a night maybe thats why hes stopping.."</blockquote>




He wont let that happen. My sister wants to watch her nephew for a couple hours tomorrow and he said no because he wouldn't be able to handle always wondering. I told him tonight if he continues to tease he can go smurf himself cause I don't care what others say women get blue balled too. But I guess it be called something else. Everytime I get teased to much my ovaries ache and I start to feel sick

I dont know...I would be hurt if my husband did that. Thankfully he doesnt. I could get him in the mood at any time, any day. It's been 4 yrs since we met and he tries getting me in the bed on average 3 times a day. Doesnt always work...we have kids and things to do. But yeah...at least I know he is satisfied.
Maybe you should explain that what he did was hurtful. Explain that you have needs too. Maybe he doesnt know or doesnt think it bothers you? Then again, maybe he thought it wouldnt happen tonight?

Quoting Laythens Mama:" <blockquote><b>Quoting Cassie Cummings:</b>" i would just straight up tell him what ... [snip!] ... balled too. But I guess it be called something else. Everytime I get teased to much my ovaries ache and I start to feel sick"

Blue vag !!! lol  

So true. Men don't understand how similar women really are to them. We need sex just as much. We're just better at hiding it hahahaah

<blockquote><b>Quoting Rydicule91:</b>" Thats exactly what I'm thinking. Only legit explanation. I don't get it...I could have this baby anytime ... [snip!] ... about to hop in the shower a week ago. Maybe if I just walk around naked all the time it'll spark him a boner lol !!! "</blockquote>




Believe me my son is 6 weeks and that was the longest 6 weeks of my life because that's when my husband started the teasing now that I can have sex he wont give it and its like k dude your really testing my limits here! LOL. Maybe we can plot some way to get some? Jk

Quoting Laythens Mama:" <blockquote><b>Quoting Rydicule91:</b>" Thats exactly what I'm thinking. Only legit ... [snip!] ... sex he wont give it and its like k dude your really testing my limits here! LOL. Maybe we can plot some way to get some? Jk"

I'm so down!!!  

I need some lovin, or I'm gonna turn into a royal bitch and really smurf his world up!  

<blockquote><b>Quoting MommyingWithGrace:</b>" I dont know...I would be hurt if my husband did that. Thankfully he doesnt. I could get him in the mood ... [snip!] ... have needs too. Maybe he doesnt know or doesnt think it bothers you? Then again, maybe he thought it wouldnt happen tonight?"</blockquote>


I told him I wanted it and that we could shower and explore the hurizon a bit. He knows it hurt cause this ain't the first time:/

<blockquote><b>Quoting Rydicule91:</b>" I'm so down!!!   I need some lovin, or I'm gonna turn into a royal bitch and really smurf his world up!  "</blockquote>




Pm me then we can plot 

Put on your high heels, get naked, stand in front of the TV and vacuum.
or....turn his TV off and start giving him a lapdance. lol

I would neverrrrrr give my husband a lap dance. I know he would love it, but I would feel like a clown. haha