My Roommates GF

She's kinda driving me crazy. Her and her son eat like crazy, and don't wash there dishes. They also leave there clothes EVERYWHERE, and don't pick them up, until he yells at them. Then she gets all defensive, because he threatens to break up with her. My roomie ( my bff ) asked me to move in, because we both needed help financially. He is also handicapped with Cerebal Palsy. So he asked if I could handle the house chores for him, plus his laundry and cooking for him. I agreed to it because he told me, that his GF won't cook, so he's been eating nothing take take out and fast food!!! The day I moved in, he informed me, that he had not had a shower in a week, because she wouldn't help him. ( I've only been here 1 week, btw ) So I asked her why, and she said it's time consuming and she had things to do. So I told her I would do it, and she got upset with that, and finally helped him shower. I do like her, she is a really funny person, but she's lazy, and she's admitted to it. Since I have moved in, I have been cooking dinner every night for 5 people, when I'm only supposed to be cooking for me, my daughter, and my roommie. She says to me, "You cook and I'll do dishes". So I cooked, got up the next morning to a sink full of dinner dishes. I say something to my roommie, and he says something to her. Then the same thing happened the next day. The women does not clean, leaves trash, empty gatorade and mcdonald cups everywhere. Yesterday I woke up and found her dirty under garments on the coffee table, and her dirty clothes draped over my daughters big doll house! I was livid, and showed it to my roommie. Needless to say he was embarrassed. He yelled about it again to her, and she said she wouldn't do it anymore. Yet at this moment, the dishes from dinner are still not washed, and her dirty clothes are all over the living room again.....

id refuse to cook for them until they clean up

That's not okay.I would confront her face to face.

Quoting regina_margot:" id refuse to cook for them until they clean up"

I'm about to do that. I'm leaving for the weekend to visit family. If I come back to a sink full of dishes and a trashed house, then I'm drawing the line.

Warn her that you will stop cooking for her and her son... just for your BFF, yourself and your daughter unless she cleans up. If she does it one more time, stop cooking for her (no second chances).

Quoting Rumpelstiltskin:" Warn her that you will stop cooking for her and her son... just for your BFF, yourself and your daughter unless she cleans up. If she does it one more time, stop cooking for her (no second chances). "

That's what my plan is.

Quoting ~Girl Scout Mommy~:" That's what my plan is."

Good luck! I really hope things get squared away.

Quoting Rumpelstiltskin:" Good luck! I really hope things get squared away. "

I hope they do, because I don't want any problems. She is really a nice girl

That's so nasty. She's going to give you guys insects. And she sounds selfish as well as gross for not taking time to help him shower.

Quoting Derpy Hooves:" That's so nasty. She's going to give you guys insects. And she sounds selfish as well as gross for not taking time to help him shower."

I told my roommie she's selfish, and he defended her a little bit. Then today she got mad at him for paying all the bills, and not giving her gas money

Quoting ~Girl Scout Mommy~:" I told my roommie she's selfish, and he defended her a little bit. Then today she got mad at him for paying all the bills, and not giving her gas money"

OMG!  

Quoting Rumpelstiltskin:" OMG!   "

I just kept my mouth shut

Quoting ~Girl Scout Mommy~:" I just kept my mouth shut"

I know it's none of my business or anything.... but why does he put up with her?

Quoting Rumpelstiltskin:" I know it's none of my business or anything.... but why does he put up with her? "

Because he loves her.

Quoting ~Girl Scout Mommy~:" Because he loves her."

Poor guy.