i told my kids and my mom that i'm married

my mom was upset naturally because she wanted to be there but overall she was happy for me. she and her boyfriend are sending a gift   my husband and i told my kids over dinner tonight at In And Out burger. I dont think my sons cared but my older daughters were very happy about it. they said "my mommy loves you very much   " and i started to cry. then I stuffed my face with a cheeseburger, fries and a shake..

now we only need to break the news to his parents which won't be as easy. he's been avoiding his dad's calls i don't know why. i can tell he's nervous when he talks about him. i hope they can understand. but i feel really good about my side of the family and as long as I have their support, i'm happy.

Quoting Mrs. Mommy to 6 ღ 30:" my mom was upset naturally because she wanted to be there but overall she was happy for me. she and her ... [snip!] ... i hope they can understand. but i feel really good about my side of the family and as long as I have their support, i'm happy."

ROFL! The title had me like....wtf? ROFL
Congrats!  

lol congrats to you.

How'd it go with his moms visit? So she doesn't know y'all are married?

Just tell them. There's nothing they can do about it now.
DH and I were married a month before we told either of our families

Quoting sueforizzle:" ROFL! The title had me like....wtf? ROFL Congrats!  "

  thanks.

<blockquote><b>Quoting ~~My Pet Wussy~~:</b>" How'd it go with his moms visit? So she doesn't know y'all are married?"</blockquote>




They kept it from her, she's going to be pissed.

Quoting Jenna ♥ Charlotte:" lol congrats to you."

thanks.

Quoting Mrs. Mommy to 6 ღ 30:"   thanks."

No no don't take that wrong...That did come off wrong...

What I mean is it came off as you've been married for years without anyone knowing before reading the post. lol

Quoting ~~My Pet Wussy~~:" How'd it go with his moms visit? So she doesn't know y'all are married?"

it was very nice. I really really like her and i think she feels the same about me. only thing i can say is she's nosey but her niceness cancels that all out.

no she doesn't know. we didn't tell her. i'm waiting for him. whenever he's ready then i'm ready.

Congrats. I wouldnt stress it.
When my husband and I got married, we left the court house after finalizing his divorce and were married 10 min later. He called his mom. she laughed and said "you are so stupid". My mom didnt care. No one was with us except our son who was 4 months old. I had a wedding dress which I had bought 2 years prior. I didnt care...I just wanted to be married. It was a long time waiting.

Quoting Pirate Hooker {BAMW}:" Just tell them. There's nothing they can do about it now. DH and I were married a month before we told either of our families"

it's up to him. i told him the only bad thing is she might be mad for a little bit but she'll get over it especially if she wants to see her grand baby she'll have to get over it.

Quoting Mrs. Mommy to 6 ღ 30:" it's up to him. i told him the only bad thing is she might be mad for a little bit but she'll get over it especially if she wants to see her grand baby she'll have to get over it."

Yep. My mom was miffed that she missed it, but I got exactly what I wanted.
Congrats to you!!

<blockquote><b>Quoting Mrs. Mommy to 6 ღ 30:</b>" it was very nice. I really really like her and i think she feels the same about me. only thing i can ... [snip!] ... cancels that all out. no she doesn't know. we didn't tell her. i'm waiting for him. whenever he's ready then i'm ready."</blockquote>



She doesn't know you of course she's going to be "nosey" towards someone her son knocked up on a business trip.

Quoting sueforizzle:" No no don't take that wrong...That did come off wrong... What I mean is it came off as you've been married for years without anyone knowing before reading the post. lol"

oh ok.