re: i told my kids and my mom that i'm married

<blockquote><b>Quoting Back to Noob Status:</b>" Do you call your kids bastards though? It has a negative connotation these days."</blockquote>




Sometimes. I mean, it it fits the situation. I don't go around telling them they are bastards but I also don't go around telling them that they were conceived out of wedlock.

<blockquote><b>Quoting Mrs. Mommy to 6 ღ 30:</b>" no you mentioned my children, you were not discussing them. you said "you and your bastards". why? why not just kids? you were just trying to get a reaction."</blockquote>




Not really. I said it mainly because it was shorter to write out than, your children without fathers of which the current man has no responsibility for.

<blockquote><b>Quoting Suckysuckyy:</b>" <blockquote><b>Quoting ~~My Pet Wussy~~:</b>" <blockquote><b>Quoting Back ... [snip!] ... situation. My children are bastards too."</blockquote> That is NOT okay to call ANY child BASTARD.Its just wrong...."</blockquote>



I disagree.

Quoting MommyingWithGrace:" You dont get alimony unless you gave up your career to support his or unless he is rich and famous. ... [snip!] ... him with his career, you could get alimony. How long you have been married doesnt determine whether or not you get alimony."

i said possibly getting alimony. i'm not expecting it but i would try to get it if our marriage ends in divorce.

<blockquote><b>Quoting ~~My Pet Wussy~~:</b>" <blockquote><b>Quoting Suckysuckyy:</b>" <blockquote><b>Quoting ~~My Pet ... [snip!] ... too."</blockquote> That is NOT okay to call ANY child BASTARD.Its just wrong...."</blockquote> I disagree."</blockquote>




So you would allow someone to come up to you children and say "Hi bastards?" Or anything using bastard in a sentence directing your kids?

you should have said kids. I think i've heard enough that my kids have different fathers so it wasn't necessary for you to say that anyway.

come to think of it you didn't want to say that anyway because you said "you and your bastards including the one you're pregnant with".. he has responsibility for this baby so ugh try a new lie.

<blockquote><b>Quoting Suckysuckyy:</b>" <blockquote><b>Quoting ~~My Pet Wussy~~:</b>" <blockquote><b>Quoting Suckysuckyy:</b>" ... [snip!] ... allow someone to come up to you children and say "Hi bastards?" Or anything using bastard in a sentence directing your kids?"</blockquote>




If they were using it in context , sure. If they were using it as an insult, no.

<blockquote><b>Quoting Mrs. Mommy to 6 ღ 30:</b>" you should have said kids. I think i've heard enough that my kids have different fathers so it wasn't ... [snip!] ... said "you and your bastards including the one you're pregnant with".. he has responsibility for this baby so ugh try a new lie."</blockquote>




Try back reading. That's not what I said. I mentioned your unborn kid later on. But, yeah that ones a bastard to.

Quoting Suckysuckyy:" <blockquote><b>Quoting ~~My Pet Wussy~~:</b>" <blockquote><b>Quoting Back ... [snip!] ... situation. My children are bastards too."</blockquote> That is NOT okay to call ANY child BASTARD.Its just wrong...."

!!!!!

I am not one to say anything about anyone's kids having different fathers. I have 4. The 2 oldest have different fathers and the youngest 2 are my husband's. Doesnt make me a bad mom, doesnt make them bastard children. Just means things simply didnt work out with my oldest's dad. My daughter's dad...yeah, long story. Both my oldest call my husband daddy. My daughter actually doesnt know any different since she was 10 months old when we got together. She will be 5 in December.

Sigh..bullies. They come in all shapes and sizes.

Quoting MommyingWithGrace:" Sigh..bullies. They come in all shapes and sizes."

 

and it's so sad seeing her try to justify why she said what she said.

I find it offensive anyone calling a child bastard.Even if I ever see a mother calling her own children that I would give her a dirty ass look.And believe me I haven't seen that smurf yet...

Quoting Suckysuckyy:" I find it offensive anyone calling a child bastard.Even if I ever see a mother calling her own children that I would give her a dirty ass look.And believe me I haven't seen that smurf yet..."

 

OP it is sad that the same person brings drama to all of your threads. If you do not like her why keep watching her posts? Anyways congrats on being married. My husband and I got married at our house didn't even say our vows someone just signed our paper. Wish I could have had a wedding but in the end a wedding is an event and a marriage is a lifetime. His mother was pissed but got over it.