Quoting J+K=Bri :" <blockquote><b>Quoting Waitingforour3rd :</b>" From what i've read if his name was ... [snip!] ... he met OP, in a divorce, she'd have an extremely hard time getting anything for his property owned before she came along."And before someone says "you don't know what your talking about" I am going to school to be a paralegal and just learned about this the other day.
Quoting Mrs. Mommy to 6 ღ 30:" my mom was upset naturally because she wanted to be there but overall she was happy for me. she and her ... [snip!] ... i hope they can understand. but i feel really good about my side of the family and as long as I have their support, i'm happy."
Quoting MommyingWithGrace:" and because they are married, she has kids and primarily because she has HIS kid...if they divorced, ... [snip!] ... his own place now. My step-dad's ex wife didnt even have kids with him and still ended up getting a house they shared together."
Quoting Mrs. Mommy to 6 ღ 30:" we're having 3 children and he's adopting 3 of mine, that's 6 kids altogether. I'm pretty sure a judge would give me the house anyway and if not i'll get enough money to probably buy my own."Op him adopting/you have children together has nothing to do with premarital property assets are split that are accumulated during the marriage sorry to say. You shouldn't even worry about what you'd get because if you love him and he loves you like you say he does then this isn't an issue...just clarifying on what would happen should anything happen
Quoting Gizmo ♥ Bry:" That's great that she and the kids took it well! My mom was the same way, it took me about a week to ... [snip!] ... When I visit Missouri later this month, I'm going to stuff my face with In and Out burgers until I can no longer walk hahaha."
Quoting Waitingforour3rd :" Op him adopting/you have children together has nothing to do with premarital property assets are split ... [snip!] ... and he loves you like you say he does then this isn't an issue...just clarifying on what would happen should anything happen"
Quoting Mrs. Mommy to 6 ღ 30:" and i'm clarifying as well what should happen. if we get a divorce which won't happen, then even if I don't get the house i'm still getting half and will invest in a house anyway."
Quoting Mrs. Mommy to 6 ღ 30:" did you have a wedding? or was it a courthouse ceremony?"
Quoting ~~My Pet Wussy~~:" Half of what? You won't get anything he had prior to marriage and will only get 1/2 of what he earns after marriage."