re: Too young?

Quoting ma ♥:" Based on your last thread, no, I think it's a good thing you're spending time away from the baby. That's ... [snip!] ... like hurting the baby. But I must say, if you're thinking about adoption, do it now before the baby gets any older. good luck!!"

Wow, I feel like a dick. I didn't read OP's last post about PPD. If you feel like you can't handle it, I'd take a break for a little. Maybe take a nap or something?

Quoting Blair B:" <blockquote><b>Quoting Jenna ♥ Charlotte:</b>" do you still want it to just be ... [snip!] ... could never give her up for adoption. I just like time with him and I trust my mom with her for a couple of hours but that's it"

i hope things get better  

Under your circumstances, no. Spending quality time with yourself (or even a friend) will actually help with your PPD.

<blockquote><b>Quoting Blair B:</b>" <blockquote><b>Quoting Jenna ♥ Charlotte:</b>" do you still want it to just be ... [snip!] ... could never give her up for adoption. I just like time with him and I trust my mom with her for a couple of hours but that's it"</blockquote>


I get that you need a break but what are you and him doing that you need to be alone?

I was thinking about letting my boyfriends mom watch her while I go to the movies with my boyfriend.

Quoting Blair B:" I was thinking about letting my boyfriends mom watch her while I go to the movies with my boyfriend."

it sounds like you don't really want the responsibility of being a mom   or maybe PPD? talk to your doctor maybe?

Quoting Blair B:" I was thinking about letting my boyfriends mom watch her while I go to the movies with my boyfriend."

Is your boyfriend also the baby's father? Just curious!

<blockquote><b>Quoting Jenna ♥ Charlotte:</b>" it sounds like you don't really want the responsibility of being a mom   or maybe PPD? talk to your doctor maybe?"</blockquote>




No I just wanted to hangout with him alone for a little while...

<blockquote><b>Quoting ♥ cal's mama:</b>" Is your boyfriend also the baby's father? Just curious!"</blockquote>




Yes he is

Quoting Blair B:" <blockquote><b>Quoting Jenna ♥ Charlotte:</b>" it sounds like you don't really ... [snip!] ... maybe PPD? talk to your doctor maybe?"</blockquote> No I just wanted to hangout with him alone for a little while..."

Hm okay.

Quoting Jenna ♥ Charlotte:" it sounds like you don't really want the responsibility of being a mom   or maybe PPD? talk to your doctor maybe?"

This! Can you have PPD 2 days postpartum or even a week after?

<blockquote><b>Quoting Blair B:</b>" I was thinking about letting my boyfriends mom watch her while I go to the movies with my boyfriend."</blockquote>


That's fine to do a date night. Especially if you might hve ppd definitley do thing for yourslef and your relationship. But just remember people have babies all the time. Does it suck that you can't spend one on one time together? Yes. But you make memories as a family, doing things together with and for the baby. I get it. My SO and I never got to date for long. We got preg 3 mos after we started dating. So one yr after we were together we had an infant. Our relationship had to move fast. Yes it is hard not getting date nights. But we take dd everywhere with us and do lots of family time. When she sleeps we have mommy and daddy time. You have to take advantage of the time you Do have alone together.

OP, it sounds like you don't want to be a mother. I'm assuming you haven't been to the doctor yet since you are not 6 weeks pp. That's usually when they will diagnose PPD. You should probably call your doctor now instead of waiting 5 more weeks.

<blockquote><b>Quoting Lillybutt's momma:</b>" This! Can't have PPD 2 days postpartum?"</blockquote>




I'm a weeks pot partum. And I don't think I have ppd I didn't know it was so bad to just wana hangout with my bf alone for a while

i wouldnt even let anyone but me or her father hold her for about three weeks i didnt want to be away from her i still dont like it at seven months but i have to work and my mother watches her soundslike ppd def get it looked into