yes i love my babies more!!!!

I, have a 4yr old son and i give birth to my daughter a few days ago.
my fiancee asked me the most stupid question ever!!! do i love him more than our kid's i say of course i love my babies more but i love you as well so i ask Jahmaine, i hope you love our children he says: yep of course i do but having a daughter is a real let down but oh well i'll get used to it. but that really has broken my heart I'm crying non stop i tell him to back his bag and now he is staying at his mum's apartment!!!! i really don't want to end the rship my son has been speaking to him almost all day today on my cell phone. do u think i should give him 2nd chance and tell him to come home??

I think you should talk it over with him first,tell him exactly how you feel.Before just jumping right back into it and picking things up where you left them.Its what SO and I did when he was all pissy I didnt name our son after him.

I think you over reacted. He never said he didn't love your daughter, but that he was wanting a boy. He'll learn to love that little girl in no time.

I wouldn't kick my husband out for that. He has his opinion it doesn't mean that he doesn't love her but your DD is still young, give him some time to get to know her

Quoting Ms.Eagles:" I think you over reacted. He never said he didn't love your daughter, but that he was wanting a boy. He'll learn to love that little girl in no time."

 

thanks for the advice everyone  

The way you love you SO is a different love than your children he was probably just hoping for a boy but I understand you wanting to protect your baby men sometimes say stupid things without thinking about it first just talk it over soon your SO will be so in love with your little girl you won't be able to keep him from beating anyone that looks at her sideways

My husband was bummed that we had a daughter... IMO it's nothing to kick him out over or to end the relationship over. He was bummed, he didn't say he didn't love her. If he was REALLY wanting a boy and was hoping all along that it was a boy of course it would be a let down. It just means he's bummed he didn't get his boy...

My husband wanted a boy SOOO bad when I was pregnant, we ended up with a girl, and he was upset for a bit when I was pregnant. But, when she came, he fell in love with her instantly.
Give him some time.

You're overreacting big time.
How is he going to bond with his daughter, if he's not there with her?

<blockquote><b>Quoting Mrs cree:</b>" The way you love you SO is a different love than your children he was probably just hoping for a boy ... [snip!] ... your SO will be so in love with your little girl you won't be able to keep him from beating anyone that looks at her sideways"</blockquote>


i will talk it over with him. thanks

<blockquote><b>Quoting ♥Mama Constantine:</b>" My husband wanted a boy SOOO bad when I was pregnant, we ended up with a girl, and he was upset for a ... [snip!] ... Give him some time. You're overreacting big time. How is he going to bond with his daughter, if he's not there with her?"</blockquote>

iam gonna sort things out first by talking to him