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Within a mother's rights?

Within her rights
 
11% (5 votes)
Not fair
 
89% (41 votes)

re: Within a mother's rights?

posted 5th Oct
Not only is it not fair it could be illegally depending on the state laws. Here every detail has to be written in a custody agreement if it's not & he his the legal father there is nothing she can do to stop him from seeing the child where ever he wants or even when. A friend of mine had some issues with her bd & called the state police that was their responce to the dad taking the child without permission. I'd get a lawyer or atleast file for an agreement to be made.
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I have 4 kids & live in Maryland
posted 5th Oct
Quoting tinana +2:" *wondering if the 2 votes are butthurt moms.... lol*"

lmao same
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I live in Maine
posted 5th Oct
Quoting Mama Rice:" If a woman sleeps with a married man (separated or still married) and gets pregnant but the man goes ... [snip!] ... visitation. The baby is 4 months old and she refuses to let him see his DD unless it is at her house without his wife present."

If the DNA results come back and the child is his, No court would grant her that, Without serious evidence that there should be reason to. Sounds to me like she is really pissed he went back to his wife, And thinks cornering him at her place might see him get back with her, Or at least carry on with her, Or create issues between him and his wife. Personally i think she should be glad that this man wants to take care of his child and provide for it, She's very lucky he wasn't just some smurf that walked away completely.
quotesmurfs?
I'm due November 12th (a girl), have 4 kids & live in Australia
posted 5th Oct
I was just thinking....maybe she never wanted him back, but wanted the child support thinking that he wouldn't want to be involved because he was married... Hm. Some women are so shady.
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I have 1 child & live in Tennessee
posted 5th Oct
She sounds like a spiteful bitch.
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I live in Ohio
posted 5th Oct
Quoting Back to Noob Status:" She sounds like a spiteful bitch."

  I hope the DNA comes back to not be his, lmfao.
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I have 2 kids & live in New York
posted 5th Oct
I think they should go for joint custody. Screw visitation. Then the mistress can take her insecurities and shove it.
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I'm TTC since February '13, have 1 child & live in Florida
posted 5th Oct
NO, and she sounds very manipulative and immature.
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I have 1 child & 1 angel baby & live in Alabama
posted 5th Oct
<blockquote><b>Quoting Destinite:</b>" I think they should go for joint custody. Screw visitation. Then the mistress can take her insecurities and shove it."</blockquote>

They are speaking to a lawyer on Monday and that is what he wants (but maybe a stupid question but I have little experience with custody) but they are worried that since he hasn't been able to spend hardly any time with the baby (he isn't comfortable in her house, he says she seems like she would try to hook up with him and he is only there to see the baby...his wife even drives him and hangs out with a friend who lives on the same street) that they would shoot him down and only allow visitation. They keep logs of every text, call, and visit she allows. Would he have a shot at joint custody? The baby is 4 months and he has only been able to visit 5 times. :/
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I have 2 kids & 2 angel babies & live in North Las Vegas, Nevada
posted 5th Oct
Quoting Mama Rice:" <blockquote><b>Quoting Destinite:</b>" I think they should go for joint custody. Screw ... [snip!] ... visit she allows. Would he have a shot at joint custody? The baby is 4 months and he has only been able to visit 5 times. :/"

I think if they have records of all of it, then he should get joint custody. It shows that he does want to see her, but she's not allowing him. That and I think if he explains that he's uncomfortable at her house and that his house is suitable to bring an infant over, I dont see why he cant have joint custody.
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I live in Maine
posted 5th Oct
<blockquote><b>Quoting shes.so.vain:</b>" I think if they have records of all of it, then he should get joint custody. It shows that he does want ... [snip!] ... uncomfortable at her house and that his house is suitable to bring an infant over, I dont see why he cant have joint custody."</blockquote>

They also have 3 kids together (my friend and her DH, just the one with the other woman) that aren't allowed to spend any time with the baby.   They haven't even been able to meet their sister.   She is keeping a huge chunk of the little girl's family from her because she is being selfish.  
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I have 2 kids & 2 angel babies & live in North Las Vegas, Nevada
posted 5th Oct
Quoting Mama Rice:" <blockquote><b>Quoting shes.so.vain:</b>" I think if they have records of all of it, ... [snip!] ... able to meet their sister.   She is keeping a huge chunk of the little girl's family from her because she is being selfish.  "

I hope he gets joint custody. Yeah, it was a smurffy situation, but thats no reason to hold someone's child from them. That little girl is going to grow up, wonder who her dad is and when she learns that he's a nice guy and dad she's going to wonder why she never got to spend any time with him. :[
quotesmurfs?
I live in Maine
posted 5th Oct
Quoting #3 is on the way!:" No, she should have thought about that before sleeping with a married man. Using a child as leverage is just pathetic, IMO. She sounds bitter as there is no legitimate reason."

   
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I have 2 kids & live in Texas
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