re: Is it ever your place... *discipline D&D*

Quoting The TTC Queen Bee:" And I keep saying they shouldn't just get away with it. I never said that. They need to be disciplined. I guess I have just never met one of these kids you are referring to..."

My 10 year old cousin is like this. His mom gave him all the love in the world... he still enjoys throwing the cats onto the roof of their house, stealing other kids' lunch money, and refuses to lose weight because it 'makes him more intimidating'. He's been like this since 3 years old, and we've been trying to teach him different ever since.

Quoting ☾BizzyBee♉:" My 10 year old cousin is like this. His mom gave him all the love in the world... he still enjoys throwing ... [snip!] ... 'makes him more intimidating'. He's been like this since 3 years old, and we've been trying to teach him different ever since."

Maybe there is something wrong with him.

Quoting The TTC Queen Bee:" Maybe there is something wrong with him."

Nope. He's been tested for every disorder they can think of. He's genuinely just a mean kid.  

Quoting The TTC Queen Bee:" Maybe there is something wrong with him."

AND: To add to my last post, when you try and throw my 10 month old child into the pool because, 'I wanted to see if she could swim, it was funny, and you were being a bitch to me', then there is either a mental issue, which as I said, there's not, or you're just being a brat because I'm the sitter and I told you to get dried off so you could have lunch and you didn't want to. I told my aunt and refused to watch him ever again, and he is NEVER allowed to be alone with her.

<blockquote><b>Quoting khigh:</b>" <blockquote><b>Quoting The TTC Queen Bee:</b>" Uh they ARE just kids, they don't naturally ... [snip!] ... now and has her own cage of three rats in her room. Undisciplined kids are monsters and that's why I usually only like my own."</blockquote>




Oh come on lol. Three is young. Is it old enough to be taught? Of course but clearly this child isn't being taught right from wrong from his own mom. Thats not a monster, that's a child who needs guidance and discipline.

Quoting ☾BizzyBee♉:" AND: To add to my last post, when you try and throw my 10 month old child into the pool because, 'I ... [snip!] ... lunch and you didn't want to. I told my aunt and refused to watch him ever again, and he is NEVER allowed to be alone with her."

Wow. And he's allowed to call you a bitch? That is unreal.

<blockquote><b>Quoting ☾BizzyBee♉:</b>" AND: To add to my last post, when you try and throw my 10 month old child into the pool because, 'I ... [snip!] ... lunch and you didn't want to. I told my aunt and refused to watch him ever again, and he is NEVER allowed to be alone with her."</blockquote>



He threw your ten month old into the pool?  

He would never be allowed into my home or near my child again after that.

<blockquote><b>Quoting ☾BizzyBee♉:</b>" AND: To add to my last post, when you try and throw my 10 month old child into the pool because, 'I ... [snip!] ... lunch and you didn't want to. I told my aunt and refused to watch him ever again, and he is NEVER allowed to be alone with her."</blockquote>



He threw your ten month old into the pool?  

He would never be allowed into my home or near my child again after that.

Quoting The TTC Queen Bee:" Wow. And he's allowed to call you a bitch? That is unreal. "

Yeah, I was less concerned about that as I was him throwing my 10 month old into the pool. He can call me a bitch, smurf, whore, afterbirth bohemian clustersmurf for all I care, but as soon as you make an attempt at my kid to try and piss me off, smurf gets real.

Quoting ☾BizzyBee♉:" Yeah, I was less concerned about that as I was him throwing my 10 month old into the pool. He can call ... [snip!] ... bohemian clustersmurf for all I care, but as soon as you make an attempt at my kid to try and piss me off, smurf gets real. "

Uh well yeah...

Quoting Back to Noob Status:" <blockquote><b>Quoting ☾BizzyBee♉:</b>" AND: To add to my last post, when ... [snip!] ... He threw your ten month old into the pool?   He would never be allowed into my home or near my child again after that."

Yeah... She'd have gone in if SO wasn't in the pool near where he was throwing her, and grabbed her RIGHT as she was touching the water. I'd never seen SO move so fast in my life...

He's not allowed anywhere NEAR her without me near, such as if they both have to go to my grandmother's house, and he is not allowed in my home again. It took all I had not to slam the kid into the wall of the changing area by his throat once I saw SO had DD... IDGAF if you're a kid or not, you could have killed my kid.

The BEST part? Since his doctor said nothing was wrong with him, his mom said that he was 'acting out'. I told her he almost acted out right into my fist...

Quoting khigh:" <blockquote><b>Quoting NICKEL☮POLIS:</b>" Disciplining a child that is not yours ... [snip!] ... kid, leave, or you will discipline for her. Honestly, my first reaction when he hurt the kittens would have been a spanking."