Politely declining a play date...

I just found out a girl I know has moved near me. This has never been a friend of mine, just a friend of a friend. So, our mutual friend just told me and seems all excited that we could have play dates. Well, the issue is, this girl is a white supremacist (sp?). So yeah, no thanks. She has always been nice to me but there's no way I'm exposing my child to that at this point. I'm just hoping that it doesn't get brought up, even though the friend just wrote it on FB. I may just message her and tell her and hope that she doesn't get pissed or anything..

I would tell her that just wont work

what does that mean?

Quoting Bosco123:" I just found out a girl I know has moved near me. This has never been a friend of mine, just a friend ... [snip!] ... though the friend just wrote it on FB. I may just message her and tell her and hope that she doesn't get pissed or anything.."

i know she is ignorant but if she kept that smurf to herself i dont know why you cant let the kids play together supervised

Quoting whack a mole crazy:" what does that mean?"

i think racist?

Quoting whack a mole crazy:" what does that mean?"

she's a neo nazi I guess is another term

When she messages you to ask her, just reply "I like chocolate" to all of her questions.

Quoting Sophie's dairy cow:" i know she is ignorant but if she kept that smurf to herself i dont know why you cant let the kids play together supervised "

It's possible that it would work out. If we did do one play date and it went fine then maybe but I know she teaches her kid her beliefs (but I don't think forces them upon him).

<blockquote><b>Quoting Sophie's dairy cow:</b>" i know she is ignorant but if she kept that smurf to herself i dont know why you cant let the kids play together supervised "</blockquote>


  I doubt her kid has those beliefs.

Quoting ~~My Pet Wussy~~:" When she messages you to ask her, just reply "I like chocolate" to all of her questions."

hahahaha, this  

Quoting ~~My Pet Wussy~~:" When she messages you to ask her, just reply "I like chocolate" to all of her questions."

lmao, well, that's one way to do it.

<blockquote><b>Quoting Halley Nicole:</b>" i think racist?"</blockquote>


Basically that's what it is. Like "white power" type smurf.

I'm doing this from my tablet so it doesn't quote right.

I would just tell her thanks but my daughter is already joining a play group maybe some other time thank you anyway

This has come up before with a different "aquantance" that got pregnant in middle school and has now been a stripper for like 7 years. Man, OK attracts some crazy people!

Quoting Ole' No Name:" <blockquote><b>Quoting Sophie's dairy cow:</b>" i know she is ignorant but if she ... [snip!] ... i dont know why you cant let the kids play together supervised "</blockquote>   I doubt her kid has those beliefs."

and if he does it might be nice for the kid to be around normal people. you have to prepare your child for ignorance anyways.