Me and my boyfriend went for my 2nd appt. The one where we would hear the heartbeat. Went to the dr and my dr sends patients out to a ultrasound clinic ad does not do them in the office. Since i am only 8 weeks he sent me to the ultrasound tech for to see the baby and hear the heartbeat. During my ultrasound appt the tech was showing us the baby and we could tell she was trying to find the heartbeat. she stepped out of the room came back and told us she was un able to find a heartbeat and i would have to go back to my dr tomm. They confirmed i had a 8/9 week missed miscarriage since i have had no bleeding or cramping. This is hard for my boyfriend with being his first child, would have been my third. We are going to the dr tomm and going to start the process of expelling the fetus and talk to him about when we could start trying for another.
am so sorry fo your loss. I know what you are going through. My then boyfriend, now husband went through that 3 times in one year! Finally, we are now 6 months healthy and pregnant. Just relax, don't stress, and pray. God is good!