why do i let it bother me?!?!

This is just me whining....but for some reason EVERYTHING my DH says makes me want to cry...like "have you checked the oil in the van lately?" "Have you checked the air in you tires? Driver side is a little low..." "why are you already going to bed?" I know he isn't trying to be an ass...but SERIOUSLY? Why nit check the oil quick while you're ALREADY outside smoking? Or use your stupid air compressor to put air in the stupid tire? And, when it takes me over an hour to drive DD & DS1 to school and DS2 to daycare, then to go to work...he needs to remember I leave by 710 every morning, which means getting all thre kids up and dressed and ready to go by 7. So at 11 pm...after working 8+ hours, doing the hour long pick up of kids, cooking supper, doing dishes, helping with homework,and getting the kids ready for bed, then actually to bed...i'm freaking tired! Dude, i'm pregnant! If you think we couldn't survive on just your income (pretty sure we could) and want me to work, help me out a little! And my theory is if i have to do all the house work and you do the yard work...my freaking van is out damn side! You deal with it! ?..sorry...i feel better...

Sometimes you just gotta vent! I've been there more times than I care to count. i got sick in the middle of the night and was sick all day long and I'm surprised my SO didn't just leave me with our youngest since he's done it in the past.

<blockquote><b>Quoting Katie Jepson:</b>" This is just me whining....but for some reason EVERYTHING my DH says makes me want to cry...like "have ... [snip!] ... all the house work and you do the yard work...my freaking van is out damn side! You deal with it! ?..sorry...i feel better..."</blockquote>




Danng you are super mom! I only have one baby and am getting into the swing of things..tell his ass to do it himself!

Labor day weekend we all had the flu except our 2 yr old. He was mad i hadn't done dishes (he wasn't sick yet...he got sick later in the day) so i sat on a chair at the sink doing dishes, throwing up as well. On tuesday, he was going to come home after my ultrasound and do a liad of laundry and dishes, but felt to sick and laid down to rest...for 5 hours! I want sick days lol.

<blockquote><b>Quoting Mama Lizzy :]:</b>" <blockquote><b>Quoting Katie Jepson:</b>" This is just me whining....but for some reason ... [snip!] ... Danng you are super mom! I only have one baby and am getting into the swing of things..tell his ass to do it himself!"</blockquote>




He ended up checking my oil...the latch for my hood got stuck so i couldn't pop it...so he got it unstuck...then it was too dark and our stupid outside light sucks...i wasn't sure so i made him do it lol

<blockquote><b>Quoting Katie Jepson:</b>" Labor day weekend we all had the flu except our 2 yr old. He was mad i hadn't done dishes (he wasn't ... [snip!] ... my ultrasound and do a liad of laundry and dishes, but felt to sick and laid down to rest...for 5 hours! I want sick days lol."</blockquote>




Ooo yeah I would not want my fiance throwing up while doing our dishes...1. That's unfair to you and 2. Gross?

I was throwing up my whole damn pregnancy and my fiance did pretty much all the cleaning...except a few things like laundry

Normally i don't mind doing most of it because he pays all the bills and works a lot harder physically than i do at work, however...he used to be good about cooking, but lately...it's not worth the argument lol. I may not go back to full time after this baby, i would like to change professions and go back to school. Yeah right lol. I would be too busy with house work to do anything else lol.