re: first date questions

Quoting Tikaytasha:" Thanks ladies!! I have a date tomorrow night, first time in umm yeaaaars lol"

Have fun!     Don't put out till date number 3.... ;)

Quoting Rumpelstiltskin:" Have fun!     Don't put out till date number 3.... ;)"

LOL ill try not to! This guy is a good catch, I don't wanna mess it up  

Quoting Jessy Ann:" There's nothing wrong with that question. You don;t have to word it like that, you could just ask "so, ... [snip!] ... to that actually says a lot about the person. Is he a traveller, is he business oriented, is he a family family man, etc."

but...for me...if a guy asked me that it would make me feel uncomfortable. I would feel put on the spot and awkward. That is an interview question...I hate interviews and I have to prepare myself for them...i don't want to feel that way to go out on a date with someone.

Quoting Christina Getty:" but...for me...if a guy asked me that it would make me feel uncomfortable. I would feel put on the spot ... [snip!] ... hate interviews and I have to prepare myself for them...i don't want to feel that way to go out on a date with someone."

     

When guys would ask me hardcore questions on a first date I wouldn't always go on a second date with them.

Quoting Rumpelstiltskin:" Have fun!     Don't put out till date number 3.... ;)"

lolol why? if it's a great first date then why not get some?

Quoting Mrs. Mommy to 6 ღ 30:" lolol why? if it's a great first date then why not get some?"

It's something "mama" would say.

but, honestly, it's an unspoken rule that respectable women wait at least 3 formal dates before having sex.

Quoting Rumpelstiltskin:" It's something "mama" would say. but, honestly, it's an unspoken rule that respectable women wait at least 3 formal dates before having sex. "

oh ok. I must have missed that rule

Quoting Mrs. Mommy to 6 ღ 30:" oh ok. I must have missed that rule"

you've missed a few rules  

Quoting Rumpelstiltskin:" It's something "mama" would say. but, honestly, it's an unspoken rule that respectable women wait at least 3 formal dates before having sex. "

ive always wondered who made up that rule... like 3 dates still seems fairly soon. i cant lie and say that i havent slept with someone really quickly..but what if you have a "date" every night for three nights in a row...then in fact is it ok to sleep with them after only three days of "dating"?

Quoting Rumpelstiltskin:" you've missed a few rules   "

 

Quoting Christina Getty:" ive always wondered who made up that rule... like 3 dates still seems fairly soon. i cant lie and say ... [snip!] ... a "date" every night for three nights in a row...then in fact is it ok to sleep with them after only three days of "dating"?"

Formal dates, not meeting for coffee or something like that. And who goes on three formal dates in a row!? hahaha

It's not set in stone, it's just a "rule of thumb" or whatever. I've slept with guys on the first date and they still called me back and wanted to keep dating, and I've waited till the 5th date...

It's just one of those "the green light for good girls" kind of rule.

Quoting Mrs. Mommy to 6 ღ 30:"  "

I couldn't help that one... it was just too easy!!    

Quoting Rumpelstiltskin:" I couldn't help that one... it was just too easy!!     "

ok i guess

Quoting Rumpelstiltskin:" Formal dates, not meeting for coffee or something like that. And who goes on three formal dates in a ... [snip!] ... to keep dating, and I've waited till the 5th date... It's just one of those "the green light for good girls" kind of rule. "

you never know!! lol.

no i know it's not set in stone..i've heard that before...i just thought it was a weird rule lol.

Quoting Christina Getty:" you never know!! lol. no i know it's not set in stone..i've heard that before...i just thought it was a weird rule lol."

Yeah, it's something my mother always told me (once I became sexually active). "Better hold out till the third date or he won't respect you!"