Quoting PooterButt'sMommy:" so my issues with my weight keep coming up and DH just keeps telling me to do something about it- go ... [snip!] ... this really hurt, esp since i've struggled with my weight since i hit puberty... idk if i should just let it go or what.."
Quoting BoysAreMessy:" We are really hard on our spouses, we want them to be honest with us about this stuff and when they are we get hurt. It's a lose-lose."this is what i just thought about. i guess i should commend him for the honesty, but it still hurt.
Quoting boobook:" My DH says I'm se y blah, blah, smurfing blah. We have been asking about another baby or not... He's not ... [snip!] ... or not. Ifi haven't made substantial progress or reached the goal, he's getting snipped. But he won't out right call me fat. :/"
Quoting Rawkel.:" Why... ? I don't understand why he would not want another child unless you were a certain weight.. that doesn't even make sense to me."
Quoting Soon 2B Mom of 2:" Yeeeaahh... That was a total dick move. Sorry hun, men can be so damn insensitive. Your trying, and he doesnt have the right ever to make you feel bad about yourself. Have you had yor thyroid checked?"no i haven't. i told him i walked 3 days in the last wk and he said it wasn't enough. i need to try harder. he's also always bringing up the lingerie when we walk past in walmart. "i can't wait till i can get you in one of those". but he's not willing to work with me.
Quoting PooterButt'sMommy:" this is what i just thought about. i guess i should commend him for the honesty, but it still hurt."