Quoting PooterButt'sMommy:" this is what i just thought about. i guess i should commend him for the honesty, but it still hurt."
Quoting BoysAreMessy:" I lost 90 pounds before this pregnancy and never once while I had those 90 pounds did my husband say ... [snip!] ... losing was when he opened up about how unattractive I was, and it still hurt then, but goodness it sure kept me motivated."idk, lately i feel like its a lost cause and want to just give up.
Quoting Soon 2B Mom of 2:" There is a difference in being honest, and being mean. What he said what mean, and hurtfull, and that is not ok."
Quoting PooterButt'sMommy:" so my issues with my weight keep coming up and DH just keeps telling me to do something about it- go ... [snip!] ... this really hurt, esp since i've struggled with my weight since i hit puberty... idk if i should just let it go or what.."
Quoting BoysAreMessy:" We are really hard on our spouses, we want them to be honest with us about this stuff and when they are we get hurt. It's a lose-lose."i kind of agree with this.
Quoting she nan igans:" I'm sorry if it hurts. It does suck, but it's also a truth. If you are a LOT heavier, he may still love ... [snip!] ... A great way to get out of a funk is to do something new, like taking your kid for a walk around the neighborhood and stuff."that's what i had heard, that got me started walking above all else. that and it give me and DD time alone.
Quoting PooterButt'sMommy:" that's what i had heard, that got me started walking above all else. that and it give me and DD time alone."