re: Ladies, I need advice or something?...

we look at the good things even tho there are way more bad things. we hope that they will change but after years of them not changeing or barely changing your eyes slowly open when you cant take it anymore. the verbal & mental abuse has made you depressed holding on to whats left of hope. I dont know why its so hard to leave. then i think its bc we have a kid tying to do whatever it takes to make this work but when you try & try with not much effort you slowly give up. Basically when you have had enought you hit your rock bottom its time to detox from him.
I know i need to leave but i am seriouly having the hardest time doing so. its like is the good things enought to trump all the bad. its it worth dealing with the BS for the good things. grrr its so hard.

<blockquote><b>Quoting ☠BryBry's MuM☠:</b>" we look at the good things even tho there are way more bad things. we hope that they will change but ... [snip!] ... like is the good things enought to trump all the bad. its it worth dealing with the BS for the good things. grrr its so hard."</blockquote>




I know it is really hard! Especially since the past couple days he's like being really nice lol

Quoting OhSoFKN Fabulous:" <blockquote><b>Quoting ☠BryBry's MuM☠:</b>" we look at the good things even ... [snip!] ... hard."</blockquote> I know it is really hard! Especially since the past couple days he's like being really nice lol"

its because he knows something is up. happens with SO too