Quoting ❥ Meℓi:" What I have noticed about the so to speak "bad" people I am around a lot, that even when they do something ... [snip!] ... it. They don't do nice things because it warms their heart to help others, they do it so they can get something more out of it."
Not always true. Just because they DO throw it in your face later doesn't mean thats why they do it. I do nice things for my husband because I want to do them. But if he pisses me off later I'll bring them up. It's not that I did them SO I could bring them up, I just happened to bring them up later, haha