No more orgasims?

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Quoting Beach M♥MMa:" I cannot climax anymore, hell I can't even start to orgasim. And if he goes "down" it seems to be the ... [snip!] ... to even feel the slightest sensation.. Can someone pls explain, or help or something.. I feel like Im too young for this."

Dry spell.... I get them too sometimes. If it lasts for longer than a week I'd worry. Maybe use different lubes, add some toys or something. Try spicing it up.

<blockquote><b>Quoting Rumpelstiltskin:</b>" Dry spell.... I get them too sometimes. If it lasts for longer than a week I'd worry. Maybe use different lubes, add some toys or something. Try spicing it up. "</blockquote>




I've had it for about 2 months, and nothing seems to work, spicing it up seems to increase my feelif of being turned on, and hype me up.. But does nothing in the orgasim dept.

Quoting Beach M♥MMa:" <blockquote><b>Quoting Rumpelstiltskin:</b>" Dry spell.... I get them too sometimes. ... [snip!] ... to work, spicing it up seems to increase my feelif of being turned on, and hype me up.. But does nothing in the orgasim dept."

Um... I'd honestly talk to a doctor. I don't think that's normal.

Is there anything in your life that is stressing you out that started around the time you stopped having orgasms?

<blockquote><b>Quoting Beach M♥MMa:</b>" <blockquote><b>Quoting Rumpelstiltskin:</b>" Dry spell.... I get them too sometimes. ... [snip!] ... to work, spicing it up seems to increase my feelif of being turned on, and hype me up.. But does nothing in the orgasim dept."</blockquote>



I take that back, I can orgasim.. They're just realllly rare and extremely hard to get. And the only thing I can think of is my new relationship.. But I don't see how, I'm extremely attracted to him sexually I just don't understand. :/

Quoting Beach M♥MMa:" <blockquote><b>Quoting Beach M♥MMa:</b>" <blockquote><b>Quoting ... [snip!] ... can think of is my new relationship.. But I don't see how, I'm extremely attracted to him sexually I just don't understand. :/"

Are you working more than usual? I didn't notice if you had kids or not but are they acting up or going through any crazy phases? Do you feel uncomfortable physically (like: "I'm too fat for him!" or "I need bigger boobs!" or "My hair should be longer, he likes long hair!" something about your body) with your new SO?

You may be putting too much emphasis on the orgasm it's self and not concentrating on other nice sensations. I would try and relax - take things slow and really get to know one an others bodies. Sex isn't just about orgasm even though we all know it's a great bonus - I would just try and relax and get lost with his hands and body. If this really doesn't work you may need a trip to the Dr.

You wouldn't have happened to start a new medication?

Quoting xJazx:" You wouldn't have happened to start a new medication?"

 

Some forms of BC keep me from getting "wet" and from having an orgasm even though I'm highly turned on.


I cannot believe I didn't think about that.