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Give him a doctor's note.

He sounds like an ass to not understand something like that. I'd smack him out of it.
But you should just sit him down and talk to him try to make him understand.

Quoting AmberTastic!:" Give him a doctor's note."

seriously...i was going to say take him to your dr. and have you dr explain things...

Maybe if he goes to the next doctor and hears it right from the doctor.

My hubby acts like this sometimes too, I find giving him some attention does help a lot, but there are time when I feel like you, just not all that enthused about hoping in to bed, but I know that men have hormonal issues just like women during pregnancy (if not worse) He just doesn't know how to handle them like you have learned to handle yours, dont get mad at him for wanting your attention, he is asking for sex because he doesn't know how else to relieve stress or deal with his feelings, I give hubby back rubs and never forget to tell him how wonderful he is...seems simple right? being pregnant and anemic he should understand not feeling up to wild crazy sex, but maybe some cuddling or oral (if you do that) would work wonders on him?

Quoting round3:" I have a 3 year old, a 10 month old who I am home with all day and I'm pregnant. I'm very anemic (my ... [snip!] ... that we "never" do... How do I help him understand it has absolutely nothing to do with him? I am just way to smurfing drained!"

I went through something similar with my Husband, and honestly we fought all the damn time over it. Just keep talking, and trying to make him understand. It takes alot of patience on your part. Which is crap lol, but true. Also I told My husband not to take my word on it, I told him to research how many pregnant women, or women who just had a baby were having the same issues as me (No sex drive, extreme pain during sex) and that helped him alot. After about a year of this probelm, I learned that just because it hurts me, and I dont want it, that doesnt mean I can completely ignore his needs (he gets sex once a week at most) and he learned if I say no, he doesnt get to be a douche bag, or an ass about it. We never fight about it anymore. Good luck hun, hope this helps.

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Quoting mommy287786:" My hubby acts like this sometimes too, I find giving him some attention does help a lot, but there are ... [snip!] ... understand not feeling up to wild crazy sex, but maybe some cuddling or oral (if you do that) would work wonders on him? "

thanks for the advice  

Quoting Soon 2B Mom of 2:" I went through something similar with my Husband, and honestly we fought all the damn time over it. ... [snip!] ... say no, he doesnt get to be a douche bag, or an ass about it. We never fight about it anymore. Good luck hun, hope this helps. "

thank you, it does. Its good to know hes not the only one lol I have tried before but maybe I will have to think up a new approach to talking to him about it and try again...

Quoting round3:" thank you, it does. Its good to know hes not the only one lol I have tried before but maybe I will have to think up a new approach to talking to him about it and try again..."

Dont give up. Like I said, it took us about a year to get where we are, and we had the fight/talk about it atleast twice a week. It does get better. Just remember he is being an ass because his feelings are hurt and he is sexually frusterated. It doesnt make it right, but it helps knowing he isnt just doing it because he is a dick lol.