I don't know why I'm so upset

The guy I've been dating a for a little over a month broke up with me yesterday. He did it in person which was the first time a guy ever broke up with me in person. I came over to his house thinking everything was fine and we were going to hang out and all that. After he broke up with me he gave me the whole "we can still be friends" speech and wanted to still hang out. Honestly, I thought it was getting to be a pretty serious relationship. I slept over once and almost slept over another time. We saw each other at least 2 days a week and also at work.

His excuse was that he didn't feel like we clicked well. I didn't feel that at all. I thought things were going pretty good. He still wants to hang out and get to know each other better and then try again but idk. Would it be stupid for me to do that?

I'm sorry  
IMO, it sounds like he's trying to string you along. Move on sister!

Maybe things got too serious, too fast?

If you're interested and really like the guy you can try the friend approach if you want but I would absolutely NOT have sex with him.

yes....dont do it...

I wouldnt, but thats me. I'd let it be and move on to the next one. Actually this just recently happened to me, I was upset at first but I hadnt got to the point I was in love with him so it was easier. At least he didnt lead you on, he recognized his feelings and told you and didnt let you get too attached.

Quoting Ꭶwan♥Nemö:" I wouldnt, but thats me. I'd let it be and move on to the next one. Actually this just recently happened ... [snip!] ... so it was easier. At least he didnt lead you on, he recognized his feelings and told you and didnt let you get too attached. "

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On to someone who will better appreciate you!

Quoting whoknowsx:"   This On to someone who will better appreciate you! "

He did which makes it worse. He was awesome and it sucks. I feel like I ruined it. I couldn't open up for some reason. I know part of it is because BD moved on before I was ready and I was hung up on him for the very beginning of this relationship but finally I got over him and was starting to open up but this guy felt like we didn't have anything in common but for some reason I always have to go against what everyone else is doing even if I like it.

if he didnt feel like things "clicked" why would you continue to hang out and get to know each other better?