Quoting -BLT-:" Ugh, sounds like a nightmare! Sounds like your main problems are from your SO... definitely time for ... [snip!] ... ago on my birthday. He left with her in the morning and returned about 1:00 in time for her to take a nap. So... 1/2 a day. "
This is where I feel like the single parent, he doesnt/wont do anything for them. We've had that "chat" numerous times and he feels like he is doing his fair share of the work. He wont help with potty training or play with the kids...then he wonders why they run to me when I get home and love to cuddle me but wont touch him. Then he gets mad and yells at them. IF I could financially support myself and my kids without him, I would have broke it off a long time ago. He is more of a burden then help most of the time, he doesnt have a license and Im almost positive it will be a long time before he gets one. I told him once I get a job, which will be sometime soon because my student loans are running low, if he doesnt start pulling more weight around here then Im done. Im falling out of love with him for this and resentment has been building for a while. He thinks I have it sooooo easy, but if hes home with them for a hour hes calling me bitching that I need to hurry up and get home because they're driving him nuts.