Quoting JiLLiAN.:" exactly. someone posted before about trying to make husband's permission a law. i can't remember what state it was but everyone was like are you kidding me...?"
That's nuts. It's also stupid how many people would agree with that. Again, sure, I'd never do it without my husband and I being in agreement. However, that doesn't change that it isn't his right at all to even have a say. There's a big difference between what a "good" relationship entails and what you shoudl be legally forced to do.