Thought I met this guy that was really sweet...

One normal one out of all the online guys I had been talking to/seen. But nope.. seriously, this island is way to smurfen small.

Well I met this other really cool guy from the reserves. I realized they would have been in the same unit, but thought hey why not.

Once this guy caught wind that I had seen Josh (first guy), he had quite the tale to tell me.

Not only is Josh (first guy) NOT DIVORCED, his wife is SIX MONTHS PREGNANT CURRENTLY. I am just so appalled. Second guy told me that they have been trying to work on the marriage but he is stepping out and claiming that he is divorced. I feel disgusted. Seriously. I knew he had a three year old with her, that's cool. But he acted like he was completely over her and hadn't had sex in almost seven months from when they first split. Obviously a lie, since she's six months pregnant.

Why would you do this? He wanted to go "exclusive" with me, but I thought it was strange that it said "separated" on his facebook, and not "divorced." And what do you know, looks like my read on people and situations is not to shabby.

What a bummer, i'm sorry! My hubby was station there for just a year. I didn't like it very much. And yes the island is small!

Quoting Just Andria:" What a bummer, i'm sorry! My hubby was station there for just a year. I didn't like it very much. And yes the island is small!"

In the Reserves? On Maui? Or Schofield (sp?), on Oah'u?

He was navy @ pearl, just retired about a year ago. We got shipped there on a hot fill. So we wound up in the radford terrace housing off nimitz. The harly shop was in my backyard! I hated it. But the scenery there was awsome.

Kinda been there. Met a guy online. We talked forever. Always said he was single. Then he tells me one day about a daughter, ok not big deal wished he told me from the start. Then the big bomb of he's married but only together for the kid. Thanks for making me the other woman.

Quoting Just Andria:" He was navy @ pearl, just retired about a year ago. We got shipped there on a hot fill. So we wound up ... [snip!] ... up in the radford terrace housing off nimitz. The harly shop was in my backyard! I hated it. But the scenery there was awsome."

Oh wow. Different Island! Oah'u is insane. The traffic is horrible.

Quoting Amber {18 weeks}:" Kinda been there. Met a guy online. We talked forever. Always said he was single. Then he tells me ... [snip!] ... me from the start. Then the big bomb of he's married but only together for the kid. Thanks for making me the other woman."

Seriously dude... like wtf.

Your WIFE is PREGNANT? I want to text him "so when is baby number two due?" But I won't, because his friend doesn't want me to tell him that I know everything I do.

I guess he is a compulsive liar- and that's why he didn't feel bad telling me what he did.

Guy number one, got caught busted stepping out of the marriage before hand, but I guess his wife doesn't realize he is still doing it.

I BET!!!! I never had the chance to go to another island  (

that just happened to me... its nice to know your mad about it.
my ex's new gf of a week ( he left me last tues) , is extremely happy to be with someone whos gf is 6 months pregnant & has a 4 year old with him.


guys are smurf .

What a major douche!

That is scum. Hope Karma beats his ass!

His wife is actually 8 months pregnant.  

Quoting .tay.:" Seriously dude... like wtf. Your WIFE is PREGNANT? I want to text him "so when is baby number two ... [snip!] ... one, got caught busted stepping out of the marriage before hand, but I guess his wife doesn't realize he is still doing it."

I'd tell his wife. No one deserves that. That poor woman...

<blockquote><b>Quoting Mrs. Potato Dick:</b>" I'd tell his wife. No one deserves that. That poor woman..."</blockquote>




I don't even know how to locate her. So that kind of puts a damper on me contacting her. I'm sure I'm not the only other girl.

Quoting .tay.:" <blockquote><b>Quoting Mrs. Potato Dick:</b>" I'd tell his wife. No one deserves ... [snip!] ... I don't even know how to locate her. So that kind of puts a damper on me contacting her. I'm sure I'm not the only other girl."

Sorry you had to deal with something like that...  

Wow dude, I would be so pissed. I thought something was off about him, but his wife being pregnant?